Hello all,
i need your suggestion who ever read this post.
I live in hostel and there I have a very good friend (U can say best buddie), Lets name her Alice. she is very caring ang sweet natured and honest.
Now, what happened is, some months ago, i went sick n doctor asked me for tests. i hvn't went for tests. Then, my father came to visit me n she complaint my father about my health and told that im not going for tests. My father, scold me n asked mr to go to doc and asked her to inform me, that i went or not.
Then, i went to doctor but she wasn't with me and at my back she called my father and told him everything that she went and told him that i was with her but she wasn't with me. Then, she hvn't even told me that she called.
Now, i came to know this after 2-3 months and the issue is nor me neither my father gave her, my father number. she stole it from my cell and haven't felt nessary to tell me.
What should i do..?? I should complaint her or let it go ..?? bcz i feel like im cheated.... or else its only my thinking....
Please tell me, what she did was right or wrong...??
She shouldn't have invaded your privacy like that, absolutely not. But you have to decide if her going through your phone to get your dad's number is really worth ending the friendship. i'm sure, if you ask her, she will tell you that she did it because she was worried about you not going to the dr for tests and she was hoping your father could get you to because it could be a health issue and she was worried because she cares about you. While this does not justify her actions, it is not necessarily a deal-breaker for a friendship. Simply confront her, tell her that you have a problem with what she did, and ask her not to do it again. If she respects you as a person and friend...she won't betray your trust or privacy again.
Thank you so much...
but she didn't call him to say that i am not going to dr but tell him that now, we are at dr room... now, we are back to our room.... i mean , come on.. im telling my father all this.... you dnt need to testify it....
i dnt know... what to do..??
welll..... that is better...
sure, il do that
and thank you.....