Ok so here is my whole story. Plase read carfefully i really need help. Ok so i started masturabting over 4 yers ago to straight porn. When i was a kid i had crushes on girls and got erections with hot teacher (ik weird). A little after i started to masturbate (about age 11 or 10) i switched to gay porn. I am now fifteen and for those long 4 years i've been having gay fantasies, some mutual handjobs and watching gay porn. I, recntly started to worry i might be gay. I never really considered the fact i could be gay beacuse i always liked girls, kissed 4 girls in this time and always got erections. I never stopped liking girls, i still watched lesbian porn and straight porn. Now, for over a month and a half i left all the gay stuff, but when i masturbate (to straight porn and straight fantasies) some unwanted gay fantasies pop back in my head. I have a girlfriend who i love deeply and get erections when she hugs me, and when we kiss. I stopped and straight and lesbian porn give me erections as easly, but for some reason i notice the difference in the pleasure. My opinion on all of this is that it was a phase, and now i cant get it off my mind, and it's kind of hard to get back on track to straight porn in just a moonth. When i have memories of my gay "experiences" i get boners, and i think this is obvious now that it felt good. Now, when i look at hot guys i really dont get and rection, it's really more of admiration and i get this nervous feeling beacuse i think to myself i might be turning gay. I really don't know. I heard it's a phase, and i really never thought about guys romatically, just sexually, and girls it's sexual and emotional. I now notice a difference in the desire i have for gay stuff. I think after 4 years it takes more than a month and a half to fully adapt to straight stuff again. Again, i get erections with girls, love girls, and i am attracted to girls. I just keep on having anxiety attack over what i did for thepast 4 years. I consider this attrction was more to penises and i herad that some guys during puberty relate owr own genitals to plesure and this is why i feel how i feel. I also heard most of the time it is a phase. WHat do you guys think? i really need help. I watch gay porn and naked guys just to see my body's reaction. I do get erections thinking about naked girls, tits, pussys and everything. I have no more dreams about sex with guys and i think it was a phase i ams just starting to gorw out of. I heard a story in which a gir though she was lesbian and met a guys and this feeling changed, she was sexually into girls for all her teen age years but then it all changed. I met my gf and realized i got erections from just kissing her or thinking about kissing her. Maybe this was a fetish??? i now im not GAY. when do people know for sure they're gay? i need help with this. I love my gf and fera all this thougts im having soo much and i cant seem to get them off my mind. Maybe it was just puberty, maybe just a phase, a long and horrible phase. Any opinions or answers to my questions?? thanksss i really need help
there are diffrent sex toys for diffrent genders, if you can not get your hand on them, then theres always your hand or fingers, experiment and just have fun
You are 15, still a child. Puberty doesn't end until abut 18, if you wanna bump uglies with girls then bump uglies with girls, but dont deny to yourself that you find gay fantasies attractive.
Everyone has their own thing that turns them on, yours is other guys junk.
Bi? Gay? or merely Puberty? Probably puberty.
There is a reason why you're having these thoughts and watching so much porn! And it's not because you're gay! So put down your PSP, (and your Red Bull) and listen up.
First off, you all got to chill on the, "Am I gay or not?" At your age you are no more straight or gay than you are a surgeon or a lawyer, so any of the people here posting claims that you are gay or straight are ridiculous. Most important to remember in any of what you're experiencing right now is that whatever you turn out to be, gay, straight, bi etc., you are first and foremost a human being and deserve all rights accordingly. Keep your pride, your self-respect, and your humanity with you at all times. These things will guide you through life and will never fail you. Also, don't let people quote the Bible to you. The Bible was written for Middle East tribes thousands of years ago and not meant for anyone else. So unless you are of Middle Eastern origin, don't worry about the Bible. The Abrahamic cults would love nothing more than to see someone suffer, just say "No!" to Abrahamic Cults. (In case you don't know what that means, look it up!)
A lot of what you are feeling is related to 2 things: surging hormones and the natural instinct in males to bond with other males, be they friends or older father/brother figures. For some young men it's stronger than others. Boys who have no father figure or older male to look up to will sometimes experience this need to bond more than boys who have no nurturing older male figures in their lives. When you watch porn you project your natural curiosity about your own bodies and this bonding instinct onto the figures on screen. It's all completely normal and when you many of you mature, you will learn to appreciate your own sexual and life experiences more without this need. But simply put, when you see a naked male in porno movies, your natural bonding instinct and your hormones are compelling you to look and or share the experience that you are watching. However at this stage in your life you probably do not have the life experience to understand that your attraction is just projection.
One last thing, don't watch porn until you are at least out of your teens! You are not a bad person if you watch porn, but if you watch too much you will hard wire your brain for it so that you can easily get addicted or imprint what you are watching onto your own sexual behavior. Your mind is a sponge and everything you see, taste, hear, touch is in adolescence will become a port of your life forever. Let your mind, body and emotions develop first. So be selective of what you take onto your mind, hearts and body! Go out in the world and have fun and don't hurt anyone.
im 13 and gay the wierd thing is all of these storys really turns me on!? lol anyway... this guy needs to get over himself he sounds like he feels he is above the gay race but he really isnt... we are still people you mofo! haha dont take this the wrong way will you? if you were gay... you'd know... i've known since i was 8 and then 3 years ago i came out to my best friend so you always know and dont worry about your sexual orientation.
i feel the same way. in 5th grade i was at a sleepover with my friend and we did some weird stuff but never touched each other "down there" then i made out with a guy in 7th grade and ever since all ive madeout with is girls i tell people i hate it when really i want more ya know? i dont know if im bi or what? my parents always say we'll love you no matter what but ik they would be disappointed if i told them my feelings. also ive been masterbating alot. ive had more orgasms than the years ive been alive. idk i have fantasies about girls and check them out when they walk by too but i feel ashamed of doing so....life is confusing!!! :)
Porn of any kind turns kids on. Stop worrying.
You're in fifth grade and had "more orgasms than the years I've been alive"? So you have had at least 11? You have barely begun. You ought to practice more ;-) Don't ever be ashamed of your fantasies no matter what they are. The only thing to be ashamed about would be if you imposed yourself on someone else or made them do something they didn't want to. But you would never do that, would you?
Omg i think you are me just in the future, I am 13 now and i litterly have tought to mysellf almost the exact thoughts in that paragraph, i have fantasies about other guys in my class and definetly abou the girl. I switch off jacking off while thinking about guys some night and girls the other nights (i try to think more about girls because i dont want to get used to gay ideas... like you) I geuss alot of people go through the exact same things we did/do, i think its just a phase kinda think, because... just like you i never thought about guys romanticly - and thats what gay really is - i just think sexually nevr like love and stuff. but even at this age i do think of girls romanticlyu and i have fallen in love with a girl in the past. I feel that i could never feel the feelings I had for that girl for a guy... ever, but i do feel that i could have those feelings for anoter girl. I think that proves that it really is just curiosity and not real gay, if you feel the same as me then i think that goes for both of us. I really want to talk with you because it seems like we've gone through almost the exact same things plz rply so you can help me and maybe i can help u too.
some times its puberty messing you ,but at the end of the day its your feelings that determine your orientation but be your self and like who you like
It depends if you liked gay sex better than straight sex. puberty does strange things to boys and mabe it was just a phase you were going through.