:'( i was hooking up with this boy and he started to fingure me and it hurt really really badly but i did int want him to think i was a lil b***h and have him stop just cuz it hurt! so when we were done he took his hand out and was like damn are you on your period? and i was soo embarresed i did int know what was wrong with me!! and one more question i sometimes bleed after geting it in the ass why is this??
Hey hun,
Firstly may I point out that you will never be a ' little b***h' if you stop a sex act because it is too painfull or rough. You are always allowed to say no! I think its time for you to define you boundaries in that respect!
Secondly the chances are that you were bleeding because the man was either too rough, caught his finger nails or broke any part or your hymen that was still there. Give you vagina a chance to heal, it is also a good idea to use lubricant and plastic gloves to prevent harm and unsafe manual sex.
Lastly, You bleed after getting it in the ass because it is not lubricated enough. If you have anal sex you must MUST use condoms and lubricants like KY jelly. Anal sex has one of the highest risk of transfers of STDs because the Anal canal is delicate and was never ever designed for sex. Only for fecal matter.
Hope I helped,
All my love, stay safe!
kee
xxx
Firstly may I point out that you will never be a ' little b***h' if you stop a sex act because it is too painfull or rough. You are always allowed to say no! I think its time for you to define you boundaries in that respect!
Secondly the chances are that you were bleeding because the man was either too rough, caught his finger nails or broke any part or your hymen that was still there. Give you vagina a chance to heal, it is also a good idea to use lubricant and plastic gloves to prevent harm and unsafe manual sex.
Lastly, You bleed after getting it in the ass because it is not lubricated enough. If you have anal sex you must MUST use condoms and lubricants like KY jelly. Anal sex has one of the highest risk of transfers of STDs because the Anal canal is delicate and was never ever designed for sex. Only for fecal matter.
Hope I helped,
All my love, stay safe!
kee
xxx