About 3 months ago after my boyfriend and I were done having sex, there was bright blood all over him and the condom. After that, I spotted for the next week. It stopped, so I had sex again, there was no blood during this time, but spotted after for the next week. I went to the doctor and he said I had a bacterial infection and he prescribed antibiotics. After those were gone, I waited a week to have sex again, everything was fine, there was no bleeding or spotting. I waited a couple days before having sex again, and this time there was dark blood during sex, and spotting followed. This continued for a few weeks, and I went back to the doctor. There was no infection this time. And he said it was just my period being out of control, so he put me on birth control, which I have now been on for a month. He said I would bleed during the first month, so I should expect that. The bleeding has continued this month. Although, 4 days ago, I had sex, there was no blood during, and no blood or spotting afterwards. I thought everything was normal again. Then 2 days after that, I had sex again, and there was the dark bleeding during, and now I'm spotting again. I don't go back to the doctor until September because he wants to see what the birth control does. I'm not sure what's going on. I am 19, my boyfriend is my only sexual partner I've had.
this is great news,,i hope it stays that way & you dont feel any pain, I recentli lost my virginity,,am 22 turning 23 next month & have always had problems with sex coz it used to hurt alot when trying to put tampons and was very discomforting,,even when my boyfriend would try fingering me & al,,well he didnt fully penetrate or anything it was just the tip of his penis,,couldnt stand the pain but he came inside me & feared getting pregnant so took morning after pills its been 3 days since we did that and am now spotting like this reddish brownish colored blood & peeing like every 10mins & it hurts when the last pee comes out,,i don't know what that means & cant really afford to go to see a gynecologist,,i'm in a foreign country studying & my medical aid card is for extreme emergencies like accidents & stuff,,,wish I was home,,a month before this we were experimenting and was he was rubbing on me but came on me so got scared & didn't want to get pregnant so took morning after pills,,,so there's been a gap period of only a month of taking in this pills,,i know its wrong cause i'm supposed to wait for 2 months,,but i couldn't take the chance & after what i read on the net it seemed okay as long as i didn't take them as substitutes of birth control,,when i took the first morning after pills i didn't feel any discomfort that was mention in the leaflet of the morning after pills,,i dont know what to do,,i cant sleep at the same time i cant stay sited on the toilet every 5mins,,,