I lost my virginity two days ago I'm 19 years old and my vagina is sore and i bled a little bit because my hymen broke but we used a condom and he didn't bust inside of me either so i'm sure you'll be fine hopefully
the same thing happened to me like 12 hours ago. i was so scared until i just read your post.
i think it is normal to bleed your first time. I was horrified because nobody warned me that it could be a lot of blood. Everyone made it sound like it would kind of hurt then I would spot or lightly bleed. We'll it was my wedding night and we took plenty of time getting warmed up so it really didn't hurt but afterward when I pulled away I gushed blood. I ran to the bathroom with blood dripping down my legs. It was terrifying but after the initial blood loss I lightly spotted the next day and felt slightly tender but it has been five years since then and I was fine and still am fine. I will never forget the horrified look on my husbands face though. so glad it was with a man who loved and cared for me. For first timers take your time and choose a good mate for your first time. It can be traumatic if it is painful and can taint your sex life. Doesn't matter if your married or not but really give it some thought. For some people it is no big deal and not painful and not bloody but for others it can be bad and you don't want a bad experience to jack up your sex life cause it should be fun and pleasant and as human beings it is a basic need :) and if you have had a bad experience I am sorry. Nobody should have to go through that emotional stress