I had sex for the first time last night and first it was hurting a lot and I kept telling him to stop. I felt dry too and was really tense and nervous. we kept trying and it eventually got in but it was really hurting. finally we started to get the hang of it but it was still hurting slightly. I told him to stop halfway through and when he pulled out the condom, myself, him and the bed sheets were soaked in blood. it looked like I had period, however, I wasn't expecting it for another 4 days. I bled for a little while after but then it stopped and it's been 24 hours and I haven't bled at all. I was wondering if this was my hymen breaking or an infection or just trauma? and is that much blood normal too?
Hi there
Since this was your first time, it was your hymen tear that brought about blood. However, you were not wet enough. So, without getting sufficiently wet down there, sex can be quite painful and damaging. Sex in these circumstance can bruise up vaginal walls. Learn to say NO if you are not well lubricated down there. Spend more time in foreplay. Drink lots of water before sex. Good luck