burning,itching

my wife and I have burning and itching in and around our eyes and nose.I also have burning in my mouth.our skin will itch mainly around our face.we have little red dots on the tips of our tongues,maybe they are raised taste buds?.this all seems to come and go but never goes completely away.the inter parts of our eye lids are very red, almost bloodly.we are always tired.all our blood work comes out good,cbc,ect.could this be yeast?my wife also has a white discharge during and after intercoarse but it does not smell nor does she have pain or burning.stress and food that seems to stress the body aka coffee seems to bring it on more our eyes feel like they are sun burned. it's weird that we have the same symptoms on the same parts of our bodies at the same time.we also have small red bumps from time to time maybe one or two at a time on our scalps that hurt to touch them then a day or two later have scabbed over then when you pick them off it leaves a open sore spot please help