hey.. i'm a little worried so hopefully someone can explain this
my boyfriend and i haven't had sex, last week when we were fooling around and he gave me oral. i know i can't get pregnant from that, but since, i've had some brownish discharge, which has now turned clear/white, which is slightly more than i'm used to. also, i've had some cramps in the lower abdomin which is really starting to scare me, b/c i don't have cramps unless i have my period.. what, other than pregnancy (if anything) is causing this?
my boyfriend and i haven't had sex, last week when we were fooling around and he gave me oral. i know i can't get pregnant from that, but since, i've had some brownish discharge, which has now turned clear/white, which is slightly more than i'm used to. also, i've had some cramps in the lower abdomin which is really starting to scare me, b/c i don't have cramps unless i have my period.. what, other than pregnancy (if anything) is causing this?
First off, oral sex IS SEX. You may not have had coitus/copulative sex, but you are having sex.
Second, you need to see your doctor about the discharge. It may be caused by an sexually transmitted disease (STD) -- which are becoming more & more common among teens who have multiple oral sex partners.
My hope is that you are simply experiencing a minor vaginal issue that is unrelated to your behavior.
Moving forward...
The best advice is to remain abstinent until marriage. That way, you don't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, abortion or any of the other problems (emotional AND physical) that are almost inevitable with unmarried, teen sex.
Second, you need to see your doctor about the discharge. It may be caused by an sexually transmitted disease (STD) -- which are becoming more & more common among teens who have multiple oral sex partners.
My hope is that you are simply experiencing a minor vaginal issue that is unrelated to your behavior.
Moving forward...
The best advice is to remain abstinent until marriage. That way, you don't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, abortion or any of the other problems (emotional AND physical) that are almost inevitable with unmarried, teen sex.
I know this post is quite old but I really wanted to comment on this... no one waits until marriage to have sex anymore. And even if you do it doesnt mean your partner also waited. You can still get an STD regardless and since so many men are unfaithful you can get an STD. YES!! Even by your husband!! No, you cannot get an STD from oral sex from my knowledge or experience. I hope everything went well for you and that it was nothing too serious and I hope CharlieJ didn't deter you from being able to openly ask for help in the future. Good luck!