Ok so im 22 years old, gym fit.
I broke up with my gf of 5 years over 6 month ago, i am completly over her!
since then i havnt had much sex, i was fine with one girl.
but i met this new girl out and everytime we have sex, i can not stay hard enough long enough to continue intecourse.
i keep gettin flashbacks of my ex, and its killing my mood!!! there bodies are very similar and everytime i get a fash
back i loose my errection. its happend to me everytime with this girl and i really like her i need to fix it quikly!
im thinking about trying some viagara? i dont want to loose her..
i also get the thought of i hope it dosnt happen again an it does help!!!
I broke up with my gf of 5 years over 6 month ago, i am completly over her!
since then i havnt had much sex, i was fine with one girl.
but i met this new girl out and everytime we have sex, i can not stay hard enough long enough to continue intecourse.
i keep gettin flashbacks of my ex, and its killing my mood!!! there bodies are very similar and everytime i get a fash
back i loose my errection. its happend to me everytime with this girl and i really like her i need to fix it quikly!
im thinking about trying some viagara? i dont want to loose her..
i also get the thought of i hope it dosnt happen again an it does help!!!
It's a vicious circle. Once you've lost it you're afraid you'll lose it again and the anxiety makes it worse.
As hard as it is you need to relax and not worry. It is normal first of all for all guys to have occasional problems. When you "lose it" focus on her. Do something different with each other. Relax, explore each others bodies. There is much more to sex than just intercourse.
Take your time, don't get frustrated. You know what is causing the issue, the flashbacks. Work on them. I hate to say but you aren't completely over her and that is NORMAL. It takes time in a new relationship.
You shouldn't even consider Viagra at 22. You don't want to become dependent.
You will conquer this.
Keep us posted.
As hard as it is you need to relax and not worry. It is normal first of all for all guys to have occasional problems. When you "lose it" focus on her. Do something different with each other. Relax, explore each others bodies. There is much more to sex than just intercourse.
Take your time, don't get frustrated. You know what is causing the issue, the flashbacks. Work on them. I hate to say but you aren't completely over her and that is NORMAL. It takes time in a new relationship.
You shouldn't even consider Viagra at 22. You don't want to become dependent.
You will conquer this.
Keep us posted.
Man I feel ur pain..I'm in bed rite now and I'm usin my phone rather than f*****g her..all because I can't stay frikkin hard..this is bs and its pissin me off. Wat should I do..and as for u ..viagra isn't a good idea..better off taken the new extenxe drink..works prettygood
you're too young for viagra, you need to relax and forget your ex. ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed