i have tried having sex with different men and i cannot seem to cum i get eroused and wet , but i cannot get to cum by a man , i can come witha vibe can annyone tell me what might be wrong
First of all...
How old are you? Your name says 25 so I guess that is right.
There is a world of difference between bringing yourself to orgasm when you masturbate, and then getting an orgasm during intercourse.
First is relativly easy as you know all your good spots. A man does not unless you tell him. So if you have a steady boyfriend, tell him what you like. He does not read your mind. An experienced man might be able to tell from your reactions.
I am in a relationship with a man that knows me well enough to be able to bring me out of my mind simply by caressing me on certain spots.
Second. Not all men can bring all women to orgasm. Most of it goes on in your head. If you don't feel safe and relaxed with the man you are with, you can experience what you are experiencing. Getting aroused, but no further than that.
If you try to hard to reach orgasm you will never get there. Relax, go with the flow and enjoy what you get. Don't try to reach orgasm. It will only block it.
How old are you? Your name says 25 so I guess that is right.
There is a world of difference between bringing yourself to orgasm when you masturbate, and then getting an orgasm during intercourse.
First is relativly easy as you know all your good spots. A man does not unless you tell him. So if you have a steady boyfriend, tell him what you like. He does not read your mind. An experienced man might be able to tell from your reactions.
I am in a relationship with a man that knows me well enough to be able to bring me out of my mind simply by caressing me on certain spots.
Second. Not all men can bring all women to orgasm. Most of it goes on in your head. If you don't feel safe and relaxed with the man you are with, you can experience what you are experiencing. Getting aroused, but no further than that.
If you try to hard to reach orgasm you will never get there. Relax, go with the flow and enjoy what you get. Don't try to reach orgasm. It will only block it.