Hi, i started having sex about a week ago and have had sex a few times.
The thing is i never come during sex, i always use a condom (normal one) and i just cant come during intercoarse.
I had sex for 30 mins and i was not even gettin close. After about 30 mins on one of the times even after pulling out for about 5 - 10 seconds I went very soft and even with a bit of masturbation would not become hard again. Only after i removed the condom could i come from my girlfriend playin with me. So far i have not orgasmed during sexual intercourse.
Any ideas people? i allways pull my foreskin back before i put on condom. All i thought that it was a little tight maybe, as i find it a bit hard to put on a condom. But i use the standard durex condoms, and even tried a other natural condom that you get from information shops for free.
Please Help, i want to orgasm during sex.
The thing is i never come during sex, i always use a condom (normal one) and i just cant come during intercoarse.
I had sex for 30 mins and i was not even gettin close. After about 30 mins on one of the times even after pulling out for about 5 - 10 seconds I went very soft and even with a bit of masturbation would not become hard again. Only after i removed the condom could i come from my girlfriend playin with me. So far i have not orgasmed during sexual intercourse.
Any ideas people? i allways pull my foreskin back before i put on condom. All i thought that it was a little tight maybe, as i find it a bit hard to put on a condom. But i use the standard durex condoms, and even tried a other natural condom that you get from information shops for free.
Please Help, i want to orgasm during sex.
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Condoms do feel very foreign at first.
Try masterbating with one on and seeing what happens.
It is very important also to feel relaxed and comfortable with your partner otherwise it can become a mental thing and not physical.
Also maybe try a different brand of condoms and again try them out before by masterbating wearing it.
Tc
Try masterbating with one on and seeing what happens.
It is very important also to feel relaxed and comfortable with your partner otherwise it can become a mental thing and not physical.
Also maybe try a different brand of condoms and again try them out before by masterbating wearing it.
Tc
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This works for me. Try abstaining from sex/masturbation for at least 1 or 2 days before you have intercourse with your partner. Three or four days works best for me (I'm 40). If possible, try to eliminate masturbating all together just for the sake of better sex for both of you.
I agree with the first post though. When you do masturbate, and you will, wear a condom. Always. The fact is that if feels better without one so that right there is a plus for your hand and a minus for your girlfriend.
If you always always wear a condom, even when you masturbate, then you level the playing field so to speak. In time your little buddy will learn to like condom+vagina better than condom+hand.
These things have worked for me.
I agree with the first post though. When you do masturbate, and you will, wear a condom. Always. The fact is that if feels better without one so that right there is a plus for your hand and a minus for your girlfriend.
If you always always wear a condom, even when you masturbate, then you level the playing field so to speak. In time your little buddy will learn to like condom+vagina better than condom+hand.
These things have worked for me.
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I have the same problem and my gf gets off quite easily so i was wondering if there are any possisions that would help me get off quicker and her slower
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I have the same problem I can't come with a condom .. The first few times I had sex with my new partner I could have easily come but I held it for her sake and now I just cant even when I try I dont know what to do, could it be a mental thing? When I don't use a condom I can come in a matter of minutes
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