i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years, i love her and havent even looked at another since we started going out. since the first time that she has used her hand on me, i have only been able to get off once. she has even gotten angry with me and told me to "go finish myself" after she tried for over an hour. lately she has wanted to to try oral. it feels amazing, but she is getting depressed because she still cant get me off. she is really getting into oral just to try and get me to cum, and i feel like a failure because i cant do this simple thing. During sex however i ejaculate an average of 3-4 times every time.
If it bothers you that much try not to focus on having an orgasm just have fun and let go. Maybe she needs to do something different when using her hand or mouth. If she is using her hand make sure your penis is lubricated which will make it feel nice and think about things that get you aroused or experiment with different things to turn you on more. If she is using her mouth the tighter the better. Try to take the focus of orgasm out of the equation and focus on each other and just have fun and let go chances are it will happen naturally the more you try to force it the less likely it will happen.
tell her to go as fast as she can when gives you oral
its not the fact that i cant that makes me upset, its that she is completely going out of her way to one up herself. she was completely 100% against oral not even 3 months ago. but she is doing it almost every week now. she does it different ways and asks how i like it.
the way that she is taking it, is that she isnt good enough. which couldnt be farther from the truth. she is amazing. even if its just once, i want to get off, to prove to her that it has nothing to do with "not good enough." she is my world.
the way that she is taking it, is that she isnt good enough. which couldnt be farther from the truth. she is amazing. even if its just once, i want to get off, to prove to her that it has nothing to do with "not good enough." she is my world.