. Hi there i am male 21 years old and am not able to cum through sex and vary rarely when doing anything else with my girlfriend. I feel this is as problem but don’t know how to solve it. I mostly end up having to make myself cum. This makes my girl friend (who is good in bed) upset because she feels that it is because of her. This is also a problem from all past relationships. When am by myself on the other hand i find it very easy to cum. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
If you can cum by yourself then the problem is completely mental as there is nothing wrong with you physically. Chances are if you can calm down, relax with your girl, and just enjoy the sex (without worrying about whether or not you're gonna cum, if she'll get pregnant, if you left the oven on, if you'll get that big promotion at work, or if the Cubs will make the playoffs...they won't) you'll be shooting your load in no time.