Okay, so i've been having sex for 4 years now, and the last 3 have been
with the same person.. I'm 19. All of a sudden a couple months ago I
just don't enjoy it anymore. I mean, he is really good at it, its just
painful for me! Not when it goes in, but when its actually up there.
It makes me feel as if I have to pee and it just feels very
uncomfortable. I have anxiety and i read that could be teh cause, but I
don't believe that. Its a physical pain not mental. I need help and i
have no health insurance to find out whats wrong! When i did have
health insurance i went to my normal doctor for a pap and told her about
it, but she couldn't tell what was wrong because they didn't have any
kind of ultrasound equipment or anything... I know its not a G spot orgasm, because it does not feel good! And its almost immediately when it goes up there. I'm really stuck doing one position and thats laying flat on my stomach so it doesn't go in very far. My boyfriend thinks I just don't like having sex with HIM anymore, and i've explained that it hurts but he just i think feels self concious or something lol. Please help me? I don't know what to do anymore. I used to LOVE sex and now have it about once a month because it just hurts.