im 24 and female
i cant orgasm during sex unless i rub my clit. if i am home alone i masturbate the same way and sometimes do this at least 10 times in 1 day. I feel bad that my boyfriend cant pleasure me in the same way that i can myself. I often find myself having to do this after sex or when hes asleep. Is this normal?
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i think girl die not normal but u and i are same i do also like that coz my bf cant make me satisfied as i feel wen i masterbate..i can say its not normal its cz we have bf which they can do it..but we are not satisfied...
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when u have sex a guys penis doesnt even touch ur clit where u get ur orgasm from when u have sex with ur partner it is very normal to have to rub urself during and masturbating isactually very healthy so i dnt think u can do it to much but if u become sore down there then u know when u have (done) it to much anyways u should share this with ur partner let him know tht just him penetrating u is not all tht it takes tell him the extra things tht u have to do and have him help u along the way like maybe he can cress u or play with ur chest or anything while u pleasure urself but i wouldnt recommend doing it behind his back r after hes sleeping u should do it together if he loves u h will undertand and take the extra time to help u meet ur needs just remind him tht u please him so he should help u please urself even if its nt with his penis tell him tht its normal not to get pleasure with just his penis make sure he doesnt feel bad about himself good luck hope i have helped a little bit!
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Try getting on top. It makes for better surface contact. Have your bf sit up at a slight angle with headboard and pillows and suck or stimulate your nipples. Its all about putting the bush/lower stomach area up against the clit and rubbing bodies. Try that ;) Or use a small egg vibe when he missionary. No shame in using toys and having sex!
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I would say talk to your partner, try and have a lot more foreplay and guide him into touching you in a way that feels good for you.
Try sex in different positions, try all different things until you can feel the same way you do on your own with him.
Try maybe not masturbating so much so you can "build" up to an orgasm with him and not have to do it all yourself!
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