Okay... I always feel like I bother people...
I'm not going to have sex right now...not for a long time! It still scares me (was only like a month ago)...I was just wondering if you ever get over that fear.
Thats good!! :-D
I'm not going to have sex right now...not for a long time! It still scares me (was only like a month ago)...I was just wondering if you ever get over that fear.
Thats good!! :-D
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O ya...My doctor only gave me three months worth of pills and then to go back to him after to see how their working and then give me more, well my mom was saying how he will probably examine me!! Is that true!! I really don't want him to look at me! Will he know!? :-( Can I ask him not too?
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He shouldn't because you are 16, they usually start doing pap tests - annually - when you are 18, so they have a base point! And OF COURSE you can turn him down! In the future when he does start doing a pap test, ALWAYS make sure there is a female nurse in the room! Even if they say it's no big deal ALWAYS insist that you are never alone with the doctor - while he is examinin you of course - most Gynos will do this anyway! and also YOU are his patient and it is ALL confidential!
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Okay good! Then why would my mom say that!? And if he asks me if i'm sexually active then what do I say!? Can he tell? He's not a gyno, he's just a doctor, he's a good doctor, but I don't want him to look at me! So what if he wants to and I turn him down and then he won't give me my pills? I want a girl doctor!
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She's going on what happens to her! Most doctors will NOT check you as the pill does NOT affect the vagina! Also IF he asks, state to him I would like to see a female gynecologist! You went on the pill FOR the pain, and he should be asking you these questions alone without your mom in the room! This is just a check up to see if they are working well for you! Many women have to change their pills a couple of times to get the right fit! Get too bed young lady!!!! ;-) XD
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Okay good! Thanks!
Hey! I was out and got home not too long ago, went to a friends house to celebrate the end of school and start of summer!! 8)
And okay "mom"!! And I don't like sleeping! :$ :-( Hence me always being on here late! Well I do like sleep but ya!
Hey! I was out and got home not too long ago, went to a friends house to celebrate the end of school and start of summer!! 8)
And okay "mom"!! And I don't like sleeping! :$ :-( Hence me always being on here late! Well I do like sleep but ya!
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So here's my day!...(sorry ahead of time if its confusing and you can't follow)
I went out to lunch today with some of my friends, well someone invited him to come and I didn't know he was going to be there. Well I just ignored him, after we all just hung out outside and he kept making comments towards me and joking around and trying to talk with my but I was trying to not engage. But then he made a sexual comment and started saying a bunch of stuff so I took him to the side and said something like do you realize you assulted me!? And he just laughed and said whatever, so I was like no not whatever! I told you to stop and you didn't! So then he tries to intimidate me by saying so what are you going to do about it!? >:( So I was like, if you keep this up i'll tell everyone! So he wispers in my ear and says, believe me, I know you would never do that, or you already would have and walks away!
******* *******!!!!!! I hate it! I'm sorry, I know you told me to realize that their nothing to me, and to basically not let them get to me, and I tired, but things like that get to me and piss me off! Its like he won again! >:( :'(
I went out to lunch today with some of my friends, well someone invited him to come and I didn't know he was going to be there. Well I just ignored him, after we all just hung out outside and he kept making comments towards me and joking around and trying to talk with my but I was trying to not engage. But then he made a sexual comment and started saying a bunch of stuff so I took him to the side and said something like do you realize you assulted me!? And he just laughed and said whatever, so I was like no not whatever! I told you to stop and you didn't! So then he tries to intimidate me by saying so what are you going to do about it!? >:( So I was like, if you keep this up i'll tell everyone! So he wispers in my ear and says, believe me, I know you would never do that, or you already would have and walks away!
******* *******!!!!!! I hate it! I'm sorry, I know you told me to realize that their nothing to me, and to basically not let them get to me, and I tired, but things like that get to me and piss me off! Its like he won again! >:( :'(
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He has NOT won again honey! he is pooping bricks - with bravado! OR he is so used to this and you arent his only victim! so lets take this slow BUT tonight start telling your close girlfriends what he did! DONT make them promise to keep quiet - just incase they do! Let the next step go out into the universe! With his whispering, I TRULY think he is a pro at this! IF he was remorseful, he would have said something like "PLEASE don't tell anyone!" So I think you are not the only one! Get the information out there BEFORE he does! You only need to tell 1 or 2 people that's it! I KNOW you don't want to go further with this, I wish you would BUT what is most important is that people KNOW about him!
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So you think its only show and he is scared? He's such a creep! Never thought I would have fallen for a creep. He's only really been with one other girl before me, and I know her and talk to her and I don't think anything happend between them. And they broke up because she was like flirting with another guy and left him for someone else, so it didn't end for no reason. The only person I would tell is leaving in August :'( so I don't want to burden her with this. And i'm scared if I do tell it will get back to my parents, and I don't want that! I even get paranoid that they will find this post somehow.
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I understand Claire! BUT I disagree with you about only being with 1 other girl! I am REALLY doubting that! IF he has treated other girls like you, and they too feel the same way - you will NEVER know what has gone on! As they with you! Next time someone asks, tell them frankly! Believe me, kids don't tell their parents! AND IF it was ever to get back to your parents, you did NOTHING wrong, you said "NO!" and he forced himself on you! Don't be scared OK? Let him know that you DO have power and he wont control you future! I am VERY concerned about THAT whisper! VERY concerned! He wasn't pooping bricks, he was brazen with it and cocky with it! It's a strange thing to say - when you are completely innocent!
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Okay, well my best friend is online and so is he, so maybe I will tell her and then gang up on him or something, I don't know. My heart is like racing!
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I cannot believe you got me to tell! So I told my best friend, and I did ask her to not tell anyone without me knowing, I couldn't not do that. But anyway, after I asked her to join in a convo with him so that he knows I did tell someone, so she started talking and spilled the beans. He never wrote anything back and got off. Well a few minutes later he gets back on and starts talking to just me, he was like really shocked I told her. He said he was sorry and he knows he was wrong and that he got carried away and like begged me not to do anything or tell anyone else. So then I asked him if he ever did it to anyone else, because what you said is true and that what he said was really suspicious, and he said he swears he hasn't...so I threatened him that I would ask some girls about him, and he says I can but he swears he hasn't. So then I asked him why he said that to me, and he said he got scared so he tried to intimidate me (I don't know what to think of that, because like you said, you don't just say that to people) ... but then I asked him why he didn't stop and again he said he was sorry and that he was dumb and he knows he was wrong but that he got carried away...and he begged me again to not tell anyone else. So I told him to just stay away from me.
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I am SO proud of you Claire - good for you! I do NOT believe him! And what you did NOW shows him that YOU have gotten control back! And he KNOWS not to mess with you or threaten you! just don't talk to him again now OK? Delete him and block him off of FB! And ostrisize him! Your BF is the only person that should be told! And this will work out! I am REALLY REALLY proud that you took that step honey! BIG HUGS!
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Believe me, I don't want to talk to him ever again! He even had the nerve to text me today again appologizing and wishing we could still be friends, is that a joke! He is definately blocked and deleted off msn and fb. Now if there was only a way to get him to stop texting my phone! It was not easy doing that, not like me to do that, my heart was racing the whole time. I'm glad I told her in a way, only so now she knows to not invite him anywhere and understand where i'm comming from, so she can help protect me kind of, and others. But shes leaving soon :'( But thanks for giving me the courage to do that! Otherwise I would be where I was 4 pages ago... 8-| Now to work on my cousin :-( But you won this month right!? I really hope you did because you so deserve it! :-D Did that other lady get any help? The one you said that got 'attacked'?
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Yes I did THANKYOU! And just like yourself the other lady IS fighting back, I am VERY proud of both of you! It takes a LOT to control that heart popping out of your chest, yet to be able to say the words and be forceful enought to get he point across! You can delete him - phon your phone company and have his number blocked! I did that with my mother in law! ;-) o.O o.O o.O He doesn't know that you have just her, right now he hasn't got a clue how many people you have told! And IF he tries talking about it with others, can you believe their faces - when they haven't hear a thing? So keep away! NOW IF he hassles you, you phone the police OK?
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