Hi you should never feel ashamed just because you have long labia, there not repulsive or disgusting and if any guy was to ever comment on them then they don't deserve to share that most private part of your body.
Your wrong to think that guys wont like them or to even think your so different because your not many woman have stretched labia and some even stretch there's on purpose for there guys because they are a turn on and your find when a guy goes down to give you oral they love to suck and nibble them and your get great pleasure from it.
Be proud of your vagina because you don't know what other females you know could be just the same as you :-)
I m using dermalmd vaginal tigtening serum and it's help heal vaginal tissue, vaginal tissue. I been wanting to find somthing that will help tighten down there, bacause I gave birth to six beautiul children, so yeah I'm stretch. This serum is amazing, after the first used I notice the difference. My husband notices the difference too. I been using this twice a day for a couple of weeks now. It said use for six months to get the full effect. I didn't get any kind bad reaction from this, which I worried about, because that is a sensitive area.
I am so glad to have come here. My labia minor have always been larger than my labia major. Since 14 or 15 I felt so weird about it, having them stick out like they do, apparent in swimsuits, would try to tuck them in. Unsuccessfully of course. And this was before the wide spread availability of internet porn! I'm so grateful; I canNOT imagine growing up as self-conscious and insecure as I was and seeing pictures of surgically altered vaginas and thinking that's what I'm supposed to look like.
Over the years, I came to accept what I have, becoming much more comfortable with myself and my genitalia, and having a very healthy sex life. The concerns of my adolescence faded in the dawning of self-conscience and sexuality in my mid-20s and early-30s. My body was beautiful and my belief in this drove my partners wild with excitement! (It still does)
But moments ago - at 35 - for the first time in a long time I had a doubt. "My labia major aren't as smooth as they used to be, I'm not sure I like all those wrinkles down there," and a quick google search looking for a 'natural' answer lead me down the rabbit hole. Where I found the most natural answer of them all. Unconditional self-acceptance, self-appreciation, and self-love.
Tho my body is different today than it was 20 years ago, it is still beautiful; strong, healthy and beautiful. I know it, my companion knows it, and I will keep reminding myself of that simple truth. Thank you to everyone for sharing their authenticity and reminding me of where I've come from and what I had temporarily forgotten.
Love your vagina just the way it is.