So my problems a little different but I couldn't find any info about it so I thought I'd ask if anyone knows of any ways to make your vulva smaller? My vulva has always been large and I never realized it wasn't normal until my foster dad told me I looked like a man (when I was taking a hose pipe bath after doing yard work). After he told me that I started doing my own "research" and realized I am significantly bigger than most women and not to mention the fact that men call a vagina with a large vulva a "wizard sleeve" because they think it means you've had a lot of sex (even though it has always looked the same). And after finding all of that I am just wracked with anxiety 24/7, I'm so scared to have sex at this point because I know how men talk to eachother and I'm terrified they will tell their friends and make fun of my "wizard sleeve". I want to get surgery so bad but I'm scared of complications and idk what to do besides just not have sex. Any suggestions would be highly appreciated
When I was a teen about a half million years ago we looked for a girl with a bar of soap in her pants, that was a prize. Right up there with big boobs for most of my friends. But people have different likes and dislikes. Myself, I prefer tiny boobs but a big vulva would turn me on. You are right when you mention possible complications if you choose surgery. I would stay away from that. You will surely find a guy who likes what you have. If the guys are saying bad things about it, that is their problem. They are showing their own immaturity.
I can't quite see the connection with the term "wizard sleeve" could you explain how that's what it looks like for me?
Don't pay any attention to what those kids say and don't worry about what you have. There's an old saying that guys spend nine months getting out and the rest of your life trying to get back in.