Im 18 and recently split up with my partner of 1 year after i found out he cheated on me, his friend was there for me during all of this, but he had come out of a rough relationship about a year ago. we have been sort of helping each other out like i would go down and spend the night by cooking dinner and just being someone for him to talk to. he confessed to me a few months back that he had feelings for me but i turned him down as i didnt see him like that. after i thought about it i realised i did have feelings for him and everytime we have a drink together we always end up sleeping together. last week WITHOUT us having a drink he kissed me and i kissed him but we havent said anything about it since. what should i do?
I know this is long.....
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Hi Sandi,
If I understood right, both of you are relatively fresh out of relationship that ended with tough break up. And it sure is one thing for you two to be together when there's alcohol involved and in a more of a 'rebound' way than what you're (I'm guessing) are thinking about now - the possibility of two of you to have a real relationship.
Since you say nothing else happened after you two kissed the last time, well, one thing is definite. You two need to talk. But, before that, I'd advise you to really re-think the whole situation and make sure exactly what are you feeling. Ask yourself do you really see you two together, in a happy relationship in a few months time, or is he just a good friend (with benefits;) who might be on a rebound just as you are.
How long have you two known each other? And how good of a friend was he with your ex?
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