I am bharat from India.
I am 30 and have never had sex before. Two month before I get married and I tried to have sex with my wife. But my penis went soft before I get in my penis into her vagina. I tried several nights, I couldn’t even
get hard. In the past two months only 1 time I got average erection and had vaginal sex. I am very worried that something serious
had happened to me. Before marriage, If I see some pictures of undressed women/porn movies/girls with sexy outlook, my brain trigger sexual feeling and I will have good erection and I will do masturbation. During that time the erection will be good and I will have good climax and I will ejaculate semen of 1 table spoon.
But I don't know what happen now? Before marriage with little imagination I had good erection,pleasure etc., But after marriage when it's come to actuals the erection is not happening.
PLEASE help. What can I do?
Below are some of my physical condition:
1. My age is 30
2. My weight is 78Kg and my height is 5 feet 2 inch
3. I have belly
4. I am a project manager in a software company working for 10 hrs
5. I am vegetarian
6. I don't eat spicy foods, Tea, Cofee. Usually my food contain less chilly, no garlic, no asafoetida and little onion. I take raw foods and fruits. These things I am practising for weight reduction. I practise yoga for stress management and my weight also reduced by 5 kg in 3 months. (Before marriage I am 83Kg)
8. I sleep by 11:30 Pm and get up at 7:00 Am. When I wake up my penis will be in full erection and after pissing, penis will get soft.
9. Some times I will got Anal fissure also. Usually it will occur when I had a long travel, irregular foods etc.,
10. I am allergy towards climate change, concentrated sweets and dust. Immediately I will got sinus problem and I will take cetzine and paracetomal. (suggested by GP)
11. My penis size during normal is about 2 inch and when erection about 4 inch.
Regards,
Bharat.
I am 30 and have never had sex before. Two month before I get married and I tried to have sex with my wife. But my penis went soft before I get in my penis into her vagina. I tried several nights, I couldn’t even
get hard. In the past two months only 1 time I got average erection and had vaginal sex. I am very worried that something serious
had happened to me. Before marriage, If I see some pictures of undressed women/porn movies/girls with sexy outlook, my brain trigger sexual feeling and I will have good erection and I will do masturbation. During that time the erection will be good and I will have good climax and I will ejaculate semen of 1 table spoon.
But I don't know what happen now? Before marriage with little imagination I had good erection,pleasure etc., But after marriage when it's come to actuals the erection is not happening.
PLEASE help. What can I do?
Below are some of my physical condition:
1. My age is 30
2. My weight is 78Kg and my height is 5 feet 2 inch
3. I have belly
4. I am a project manager in a software company working for 10 hrs
5. I am vegetarian
6. I don't eat spicy foods, Tea, Cofee. Usually my food contain less chilly, no garlic, no asafoetida and little onion. I take raw foods and fruits. These things I am practising for weight reduction. I practise yoga for stress management and my weight also reduced by 5 kg in 3 months. (Before marriage I am 83Kg)
8. I sleep by 11:30 Pm and get up at 7:00 Am. When I wake up my penis will be in full erection and after pissing, penis will get soft.
9. Some times I will got Anal fissure also. Usually it will occur when I had a long travel, irregular foods etc.,
10. I am allergy towards climate change, concentrated sweets and dust. Immediately I will got sinus problem and I will take cetzine and paracetomal. (suggested by GP)
11. My penis size during normal is about 2 inch and when erection about 4 inch.
Regards,
Bharat.
I believe that your main issue is probably the "stage fright". At the age of 30, youve never had sex and therefore you're not used to having an "audiece"(your wife) around when you need your private time. What you need to do is to ease into it. Make the night romantic etc and start slowly with kissing and move down slowly. By the time ure done down there, you'l have an erection and be ready for sex. If you're still convinced that something is wrong, why don't you try the porn again just to check if your still capable of it.
Baharat, I absolutely agree. The type of orgasm that you have when in front of people is completely different from when you are alone, so it is mostly psychological issues that are keeping you from being able to maintain a normal erection. The two of you probably will need to spend more time together before you feel totally comfortable around her. Please let us know how things turn out.
You need to get enough sleep 8 hours. You need to eat multivitamins. You also need to eat fish and goat. You also need to excercise play sports and go jogging. Stress and depression can effect your erection so never be stressed.