Hello there. when i mausterbate by rubbing my shaft it takes time. but when i include head of my penis during mausterbation it take only seconds. i cant perform sex with my g/f cuz it takes only seconds to cum. whats wrong in it. is it any kind of skin problem on the head or else....
Sounds pretty normal to me.
The head is where all the nerves are concentrated and your largest sex organ (your brain) is soooo happy to get the little guy that close to heaven, he can't contain it any longer. It's a sign that you love her very much. If you were doing it with someone you didn't have feelings for, like the guys in porn, you would be able to last a lot longer, like the guys in porn.
It gets better with use, and having an orgasm first makes the second one take longer. I used to do oral on my wife as part of our foreplay. While doing that I would usually cum without touching my penis at all. I would come when she did. Then when I went in I could last a lot longer and we actually perfected coming together with a little practice.
What you are experiencing is completely normal and all you need to do is work with it.
The head is where all the nerves are concentrated and your largest sex organ (your brain) is soooo happy to get the little guy that close to heaven, he can't contain it any longer. It's a sign that you love her very much. If you were doing it with someone you didn't have feelings for, like the guys in porn, you would be able to last a lot longer, like the guys in porn.
It gets better with use, and having an orgasm first makes the second one take longer. I used to do oral on my wife as part of our foreplay. While doing that I would usually cum without touching my penis at all. I would come when she did. Then when I went in I could last a lot longer and we actually perfected coming together with a little practice.
What you are experiencing is completely normal and all you need to do is work with it.