My girlfriend and I are having a few sexual complications. She is never in the mood to have sex. Is there some kind of drug out there that's like a female version of viagra? Please do not post on here that sex isn't everything. I know this, but she and I have discussed this issue and it is something that truly bothers her. I love her so much and I want her to be happy and feel like the sex goddess I know she is. Also, are there any kinds of foods that help stimulation--aphrodisiacs(sp?)?
It differs from person to person, some people loosen up after a little wine and some have to have a lot of foreplay beforehand.
Perhaps you should ask her if she has any fantasies, give her a massage, or perhaps treat her to a meal and a glass of wine. The wine would depend on your age and what country you live in of course.
Does she ever explain why she doesn't want to have sex? It could also be that she is worried, self-conscience, or depending on her age she might not even be ready to have sex yet.
Perhaps you should ask her if she has any fantasies, give her a massage, or perhaps treat her to a meal and a glass of wine. The wine would depend on your age and what country you live in of course.
Does she ever explain why she doesn't want to have sex? It could also be that she is worried, self-conscience, or depending on her age she might not even be ready to have sex yet.
Actually, it's harder to turn her on after she drinks alcohol--like she doesn't get wet even if I do everything that I know turns her on--i.e. MAJOR FOREPLAY. She's a bit self-conscience, but she knows she has nothing to worry about with me. We are both very open to each other and talk about everything. I do give her massages, actually. I learned that there are certain nerve endings in the feet that totally set the mood, this doesn't ever seem to work either. She says it feels good but does nothing for her sexually.
Would anyone else like to contribute a little more information?
WELL I KNEW NOTHING OF THIS NEVRE IN THE FEET DOES THAT GO FOR MAN AND WOMAN AND WHERE IS IT LOCATED? XD
have you tried sex toys or maybe even porn, or costumes and edible undies or cremes I know its kind of a lot but my friend had the same problem and these things worked for her and even now sometimes she doesn't want it so her bf uses lubricant and after a while she will get into. I hope this helped if not maybe she should see a doctor maybe its like reversed erectile dysfunction. good luck