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I noticed that when we kiss for too long, sex takes like 2 min. What I mean to say he gets so excited and finish too fast, and I didn’t even started. The thing is I like kissing him and that is the best part for me. I don’t what to do. Does anyone else have this problem?

I have similar problem. My boyfriend tends finishing too fats when I give him blow job. It is like 1, 2, 3, end…it is so funny. He said he just can’t control himself. I believe that is all in their heads. I don’t know if they imagine something or what but…there is the problem.
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I've totally been there, I suggest searching the Cosmopolitan magazine archives on this. Guys, especially when not used to getting action regularly, have no stamina. There's different ways to help him last longer, one is a numbing cream, I don't know about that. One that has worked for me is when you notice him getting ready to blow to change pace/activity/area of sensations, that way he doesn't get into a rhythm and it takes him longer. Another thing you could try is letting him go once and don't stop. Give him a quick breather, then get in for round two. Guys enjoy multiple orgasms too. Good luck!
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well you girls need not feel bad i am married and been that way for almost 2 years and my husband still goes within minutes if we are having intercourse..at first i thought it was because he had only been with a few girls and was not getting it regularly..but it has been 2 years and it still happens..now if i am giving him a blow job he can go forever but to actually stick his penis in my vagina it is over before it began..and most times i am left unpleased..most times there is no round 2 for us because his penis goes soft within seconds and is so sensitive he freaks if i try to touch it..the best bet for you is to talk to your partner about this and tell them what is going on..maybe you two can come to some kind of agreement like we did..now if i dont finish he will use a toy on me til i go and sometimes he will get hard again while using the toy on me..which is great because i would much rather go with him than the toy..but you gotta do what works..no reason to be sexually frustrated..right?
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