getting rid of a bondage addiction

i had a similair situation when i was young, and it followed me through life.yea, relationships may have been a bit trickier, but then again, iv tied up every girl iv known at least once. finally married a girl that likes me tying her up...always

If you believe, Lord is the creator of ourselves, pray and you will be healed, it may take sometime depending your trust, I believe it is our repentance and trust in Lord which really helps to untie the knot.

Thanks
You have helped a lot

nope,u arent the only one...my bf doesnt like it but sometimes he practices it just for my pleasure

I have a bondage fetish I think I can't get hard while looking at women but tied up and gagged I can masturbate and get a slow boner to help?

I'm a gay man, very much into BDSM and leather, and you are exactly right, Billy...

The judgmental m****s telling people to 'change' their sexuality, desires, and passions need lobotomies or shock therapy. You are FINE the way you are. Embrace and enjoy your 'fetishes' and deepest desires. (I'm looking at YOU, 'guest' who responded so stupidly to 'Darryl' and moronic 'guest' who first responded to the OP.)

I have been into bondage ever since I can remember. I don't know how old I was when I realized tied up and gagged women turned me on. I think I was literally born with a bondage fetish. My earliest memory of bondage was at the age of 3 or 4. Very young. I believe I was watching Scooby doo and Daphne (of course) got grabbed from behind with a hand over her mouth and in the next scene she was tied to a chair and gagged with a bandana which I know now as a "cleave gag". The bad thing is that it has tuned into a MAJOR OBSESSION throughout the years. It started with the internet surfing, then a few years passed and limewire came around and I could get my hands on free full length bondage flick, becoming members on favorite bondage sites....etc.....it has become bad. I now own 79 bondage DVD'S that I keep in a box in my room neatly organized. I had I think 15 when I was with me ex a few years ago. She knew I was into bondage and she'd often let me tie her up. She liked it, but not as much as me. When we broke up a year and a half ago things started getting really bad with me. I started watching/downloading so much bondage porn and then I found an adult dvd store not far from my house that had a major selection of Harmony Concepts bondage DVD'S that all went for $9.99 a pop. In just a few months I owned every single bondage DVD they had on the shelf. I kept going back and bank every time I made money or got paid. I also have bags filled with ropes and gags. Tons of different gags. Ball gags, ring gags, bit gags, panel gags...everything. it's so screwed up. Since I've been alone I've now started to experiment with self bondage. I've experimented with self bondage more than a few times in the past (how do u think I learned how to tie so well?) But recently ever since that breakup I've been doing it quite frequently. I want to get rid of my DVD'S (even though I spent over a grand to get all of them). I dint like the fact that I own all these bondage DVD'S. What if someone finds them? Or I date another girl and she finds them? That'd be really bad! I don't mind keeping the ropes and gags though, because those can come in handy hopefully in the near future with a new girlfriend who hopefully is into bondage......my whole point is this all started with bondage porn. Yeah, I've always had the fetish but the internet is what screwed me up. Be careful. And people you need to realize that bondage is all about love. It's not about pain or hurting people. It's about freedom. And It's simply used for pleasure and fun for both partners. Just because people are into bondage doesn't mean they're going to act on it and go out kidnapping people and tying them up......I'm a normal person. Normal man. I have a decent steady job, I pay my bills and I go out with my friends from time to time. I just feel like my bondage fetish has gotten way out of hand lately that's all......thanks for listening. :-)

Don't get rid of your DVDs, mister. Or your ropes and gags. You need a girl who loves bondage and understands who you are--and this is who you are. Bondage and SM (and leather) are the dirty little secret of tons of 'normal' people, and there is nothing dirty about them. 

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Just let it go and never view porn again

Just get over your Puritanism 

I have no f*****g idea how m i suppose to prevent or to simplify stop watching bondage shows and when i see videos like porn it dosnt even make me turn on goshh...

You need to accept yourself as you are. It is the m****s who want to paint all sex as EVILLE (except procreation in the missionary position in the dark for three minutes once a year, lol) who are totally screwed up--not you!

Could something in ur childhood have happened

Oh, please. It's not a disease or a psychosis, unlike the rampant American sociopathies of GUN love, greed, etc. Get over yourself.