Girlfriend loves anal sex too much.

First lets put down some facts for those inexperienced people about anal sex.
The rectum is naturally not as clean as the vagina, so so proper prep will save some embarrassment and prevent any mess. An enema is recommended to solve this problem. The rectum is also not lubricated like the vagina, so if you aren't bringing in some synthetic/commercial lubrication it is going to hurt more and you won't enjoy it. Don't believe that just some saliva or juices from the p***y will be enough unless you are an old pro and your anus can relax at the drop of a hat. Speaking of relaxing, if you're trying to get into it, don't tighten up - try to push out like you're evacuating your bowels, or try different positions.

Now about too much anal sex, no, there is no such thing. Just like there isn't such a thing as too much vaginal sex. The more you have, the easier it is to have it again later. If you abstain from anal sex (just like if you abstain from vaginal sex) for long periods of time, your muscles will be very tight and you will get fatigued and sore much sooner when you do have sex again. So, if you want to get into it, stick with it. Don't think that if you try it once a month you will get better at it because each time you try it again you will get sore fairly quickly. It takes practice.

Because anal sex is still a 'taboo' it can be very erotic to try. It can make you feel naughty. However, there are some stigmas about it, such as that it is degrading for the receiver, or that it will hurt. If you are in a loving relationship, the former feeling can be reduced, and if you are with an experienced partner who knows how to go slow, communicate, use lubrication, etc, then the latter will also be reduced.

For most people anal sex is pretty love-it/hate-it. The hate it is usually related to either a) a bad experience, or b) a mental stigma. For those with a bad experience, a good experience might turn the tide for them and they can learn to enjoy it. In many ways it can be much more enjoyable than vaginal sex, for both partners. For people with a mental stigma, unfortunately, there is little that can be done to convince them that they can learn to enjoy it more than vaginal sex.

There are no long-term downsides to anal sex. Short term downsides (and their causes) include dirtied clothing/sheets (failure to properly prep), physical discomfort (nervous and not relaxed and/or lack of lubrication), emotional distress (doing it for the wrong reasons), and anal bleeding (lack of lubrication). Incontinence form anal sex is a myth - putting a penis or dildo in your anus will not stretch your anus so much that you can no longer contract it to keep from defecating. Constipation is also a myth - stretching the sphincter muscle will not stop your entire bowel from moving feces along toward the rectum. 

For people new to anal sex. Start with a good cleaning on the outside. If you feel up to it, take an enema to clean out the inside. Make sure to pick up some good liquid lubrication (Pjur Eros, Sliquid Silk, astroglide, KY liquid, etc) and don't skimp by using jergens/nivea/body lotion. Start small, with inserting a finger. When your anus relaxes to that, move to two fingers. When you are used to that after a few minutes, move to three fingers. THEN let him poke his head in and it won't feel so extremely stretched if you have gradually worked up to it.

If you are already at that stage and having regular anal intercourse, consider yourself fortunate; many people would love to be in your shoes, or with a partner as receptive as you! Enjoy sex, and don't worry about if you're having too much of it. As long as you know what safety issues or concerns there are (hygiene, pregnancy, STDs, physical discomfort, emotional well-being) and take steps to protect yourself from the negative possibilities you will be just fine!

So what are you waiting for? Go help someone else learn more about anal sex now that you're so smart!

give it to her and often!!! the more often the better!!!! she doesnt like it as much as i do though!!!! you are the luckiest man alive, youre blessed, count your blessings every time you hit that sweet ass!!!!  if you quit shell leave you... best of luck man!!! f**k ass hard, harder, and till you pass out dead!!!! kiss and suck it too!!!!

I love anal sex with women, because I like butt cheeks and ass. With anal sex, you get to f**k the actual ass. How awesome is that?

You are one lucky s.o.b.
My uptight wife won't even let me lick her ass to get it ready.
Would love to do her ass on a regular basis
Am looking for someone on the side more liberal minded

Dafuq would he stick himself in you while your sleeping? That's creepy.

your off your head

did she give you a Cleveland steamer, too?

You are NOT a anal virgin. YOU have officially been screwed in the ass!!!

You can destroy the rectum, and have fun wearing Depends.

You are lucky. I like anal mostly and would love to have girl that only wants anal

Can't speak for my man, but he and I started having anal regularly a few years ago. He is rather large, like 8.5 inches and really thick and I have had having trouble with him hitting my cervix. He always told me how good it felt when he was deep in me and boy it hurt after about 45 minutes of heated sex. I knew from watching porn (my guy isn't really into it - but i love it) that anal is the new thing and so I ordered some toys and while he traveled I started opening myself up.

Initially it was pretty dirty and slow going. I found that changing my diet to be not only helpful in keeping me "cleaner" up my ass, but I really dropped weight (was about 145, now 107). I began doing yoga and stretching to better accommodate all the positions that anal allows for. I did all of this for about 3 months before talking to my man about it.

Not knowing how my man would react, he is kind of a "purist" when it comes to sex, no dirty talk, no toys just straight "making love" kind of guy - you know - a nice guy. Anyways since I had been working out and eating better he noticed and we started talking about sex. I told him that I had been curious about anal and have been working on taking some toys. He was so good at accepting what I was telling him, it was sexy to know that we could talk about anal like this. He told me he would like to try so we started.

We have anal sex about every other time - maybe a little more, he still likes f*****g my p***y which is nice - even though he is big. But the secondary gain from that one conversation about anal sex is that it really opened the doors to our sexual and physical health. He has joined me on the new diet. He used to be about 280 pounds now he's about 225 and damn sexy. He really came around to anal and we bought a few couples toys including toys for him, including a feel-doe that allows me to f**k him. When we prep for sex we both clean ourselves out (when you change your diet to add more fruits vegetables and fiber, cleaning yourself out doesn't always need to happen, or if it does it is far less intrusive and time consuming - plus his cum tastes a lot better, BONUS!!!).

Some other tips for the ladies (or they're men doing some research for them). When trying anal for the first few times, it helps to push out like your trying to poop, if your empty inside - nothing will come out, save a little bit of gas which is normal. Contrary to popular belief pushing out helps your sphincters (yes there are more than one) to relax and open up. This makes anal less painful.

I have personally spoken to some experts in the field of gerontological heath and found that kegal exercises can be helpful to reducing incontinence issues. Similarly they said that like kegal exercises, anal sphincter exercises do not diminish the ability to prevent incontinence, they actually improve the ability of the anus to open and close. So they said anal sex will only serve you later in life, not hurt you.

Try toys - prep with toys to allow your as****e to open up. When I was helping my guy to be willing to open himself up I had him do the same thing I did, take a shower in the morning, put some thick water based lube on a comfortable butt plug and spend the day at work. When you come home you would be amazed what your ass is willing to accept.

If done right anal sex, in the right position - for me its missionary with my ankles behind my head, shoulders in front of my knees (sounds impossible or even painful, its not...hint: stretching and yoga really help you here). When my man f**ks me here he really stimulates my G-spot, a territory unknown to me until anal sex was discovered. If you watch any porn you know the magic of the G-spot including squirting orgasms. This is another secondary gain of anal sex ladies!

If your in a monogamous relationship only: we have graduated to using baby oil as a lube. Sometimes our sessions transition from  a massage to sex. I say this only if your in a monogamous relationship because oil and condoms don't mix. Baby oil (or any other oil - mineral -if your allergic to fragrances, olive/cooking oil) really heat up our love making. And assholes, not being naturally lubed, thrive with a nice coating of oil.

Watch porn with your man/woman - you both will learn so much that you have been missing. And on a note about that: we have since watched a lot of porn and can safely say, at least with us - moving from ass to p***y, or from ass to mouth - IF CLEAN- is not a problem in our life. We have read many contrary opinions from "experts" on the internet, watched a lot of porn that contradicted said "experts" and we are of similar opinions of the porn industry: ass tastes good. I love the taste of my ass, his ass and I love the feeling of his tongue diving into my as****e.

Purchase a lube injector, something that will push the lube deep into your ass - you wont regret it.

Be open to new things. Before I looked into anal sex on my own, if you would have told me we would be regularly having anal sex and I would regularly be f*****g my husband with a sex toy, I would have laughed. Loving and trusting your partner is the best recipe for success in the bedroom. Never once did I feel pressured or did I pressure him.

Last thing, and it has nothing to do with anal sex. I love drinking my man's cum. At points in my life I couldn't say this. Since we have been exploring the internet for tips to improve our sex life, he has started a vitamin and supplement regimen that A: improves the consistency of his cum, B: significantly increases the volume of his cum and C: improves the taste of his cum. He takes a few things, which I cant remember, but he has been doing this for a year or so and I love saying I love drinking his cum. And recently he too has become a fan of his "man juice" - just sayin'.

 

 

Umm I just got very aroused reading that but there is no way in hell my wife is sticking anything up my ass. We enjoy anal 3-4 times a week. We take a bath and i will finger her ass in the tub to see if her rectum is empty. Once the anus is relaxed i will use my index finger to push water into her anus to clean it out. She loves the way a top quality olive oil feels since it adds a tingling sensation. Anal has become one of our favorites and she loves switching it up from anal to vaginal at the same time. If you keep your diet clean and have good hygiene there is nothing to worry about. If you have a large penis then sometimes you can release some fecal matter so let your nose be the guide and stop immediately and clean up. Before i put it from anus to vaginal i stroke my d__k and smell it to make sure it is clean. A clean anus should smell good and very arousing... its such a turn on to  feel her cum multiple time in 10 minutes. To all those women out there afraid of it start with finger play after a nice hot bath, you will not regret it unless your man doesn't listen to how you feel.

And you read too much Bible.....

if i was you, i would f**k her ass 3 times a day. anal sex is bliss, don't blow it. i am thimking about anal sex all the time & wish to meet a lady that would give me her ass all the time... dammit ,man, you are sooooooooooooooooo f*****g lucky... i really really really need a lady like yours

Best post I've ever read. lol