My husband and I have been together for almost 3 years.. and our sex life is great! but I have never been able to get him off from oral sex. He says no one has ever been able to do it to him and he's been with at least 30 women in his past. I have never had this kinda trouble before. I've always been told I'm pretty good at it. I've even researched ways to send him off the deep edge. I've tried it all.. If any of you males could enlighten me to something I haven't tried please, I'd be open to the advice.. This is starting to bug me.. the other night alone i know i must've tried for 25 mins straight.. and lately if he's laying flat, his penis won't stay hard.. he has to sit up or stand. this has only been happening for about 3 months.. he swears it's because he wants sex and "head" doesn't meet his urges at the time.. i dunno.. If anyone has got any thoughts on the subject!!! PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE MY HUSBAND IN THE ONE WAY NO ONE ELSE HAS!!!!!
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I can understand how you must feel. It sux when you can’t please someone you care the most for. I just don’t understand how come he can’t get excited by oral sex. How does he get excited then? How does he get it up if not by oral sex? Are you also using your hands along with oral se because that is much better then lips and tongue alone, it gives a feeling of more tightness.
Put your thumb and index finger under your lips and make a circle and then do it mutually. Hold the circle real tight to feel as if it is coming in into anal hole and not vaginal….read make more pressure but not to hurt him.
Another good point would be not to approach to the penis directly. You could start by touching his balls, and inner thighs, licking his penis from time to time. When he gets more interested (if), approach to his penis with the technique I mentioned above.
Most men, myself included, really like when a girl licks the frenulum, the tissue that connects foreskin and the head. That’s cool. Don’t use your teeth.
Now, I also like when my girl presses down on perineum during a blowjob or when she inserts her finger inside my anus. But if you do that, make sure your nails are trimmed, that you use lubrication and that you massaged anal area with your fingers for at least 5 minutes before trying to put it in.
This works for me, I hope it works for your husband as well.
Put your thumb and index finger under your lips and make a circle and then do it mutually. Hold the circle real tight to feel as if it is coming in into anal hole and not vaginal….read make more pressure but not to hurt him.
Another good point would be not to approach to the penis directly. You could start by touching his balls, and inner thighs, licking his penis from time to time. When he gets more interested (if), approach to his penis with the technique I mentioned above.
Most men, myself included, really like when a girl licks the frenulum, the tissue that connects foreskin and the head. That’s cool. Don’t use your teeth.
Now, I also like when my girl presses down on perineum during a blowjob or when she inserts her finger inside my anus. But if you do that, make sure your nails are trimmed, that you use lubrication and that you massaged anal area with your fingers for at least 5 minutes before trying to put it in.
This works for me, I hope it works for your husband as well.
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yeah.. been there with the hands and the balls.. the lack of interest (persay) has only been happening the last few months. and it's not something i'm trying to do all the time. other than that our sex is great! he'll have an erection, it's just whenever i start oral, 8 times out of 10 he loses it. like i said before, he blames on wanting sex and sex only. my husband has been around and done everything so this is really important to me! i took his virginity in high school and i never got him off with oral alone.. we were apart for about 6 years and now we're together and i still can't.. it can't be just my technique, cause no one else has been able to do it either.. and the anal thing.. no way, he'd freak! but thanks for the advice..
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