How old were you and your wife when you both had sex? I'm very confused because I was thinking about having sex with my boyfriend who I am in love with and actually want to marry. But I've heard so many stories on how "you'll just be brOken hearted" and "it never works out.". So it's inspiring to hear another story for once.
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if you are still finding it hard it may be you are not aroused or it may just be you need to use a lubricant xx
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HI hello, please contact me i ll show u how to take inside de penies in vagina. without paining ok, contac me.
Amit Don.
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The most important thing of all is that you must relax,put some faith in your partner,I doubt that he wants to hurt you.If this is the first time it could hurt a little but you will remember this for the rest of your life,It will be one of the most pleasurable experiences you have ever had.Please take care and enjoy life,we are here for a mere blink of an eye,All the best,Chris,xxx.
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LOL. I you trying to get her pregnant? Make sure you use protection, hon! Thats the first and most important thing. If you let him ejaculate inside you and let his penis sit in there you'll concieve. Make sure your partner has a condom on or you start using the pill. If you do choose the pill, make sure you are taking it for a month before you have sex.
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You must wear a condom ,there fore i don't agree with this one line
'then he will spurt, and his sperm will lubricate your vagina feel less streatched. "
'then he will spurt, and his sperm will lubricate your vagina feel less streatched. "
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well... i think it is normal to loose virganity at that age, and a good man will love you enyway, just be sure u are going on pills ore jusing condoms and everything is gonna be alright :) BUT don't DON'T do it the first time with someone who doesn't mean enything to you.. if you do that I think u will reagret.. a lot :)
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Hi 'scared&embarrassed' - there is no need to be, as your name suggests.
I had the exact same thoughts and problems as you have described. I had my first sexual experiences when I was 17. I tried, with my bf at the time, to have sex, but his penis wouldn't go in and it hurt to try - I realised later that I was probably because there was not enough lubrication. The next bf I had, I tried again. This time I made sure I was relaxed and had lube. Still.. No luck.
I was really embarrassed and decided that i'd avoid trying again by making my excuse that I was 'saving it till marriage.'
I'm 19 now and my current bf is 24, we are both law students and he is very understanding - it's important that you can find someone like this (makes it a lot better). We tried tried to have sex about 3 time, and the same problem occurred, as above, each instance. However, about 4 days ago we tried again and I finally lost my virginity. We then had sex 3 times within 48 hours.
A few things I learnt, and you should know:
- There's nothing wrong with 'attempting' sex and not being able to follow through, or asking him to stop
- It will hurt a lot (especially if you are like me and are nice and 'tight' - I'd say, well proportioned for my size :)
- Be relaxed and only do it if you are ready
- Make sure you use lubricant
- Have enough fore-play beforehand
- I 'lost it' whilst on top - that way I can control it and use my hand to guide his penis in
- It's normal to have bleeding/light pink for a few days after
- It's also normal to feel tender or have stomach discomfort
Hope this helps.. and to think that less than a week ago, I was wondering what was wrong with me and that this guy must think i'm a freak! haha
x
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