HI IM BAILEY, I HAVE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 4 MONTHS NOW. THE ONLY PROBLEM WE HAVE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP IS IM A VIRGIN & WE CAN'T GET IT IN. IT'S SO FUSTRATING! WE HAVE TRIED 3 TIMES AND I JUST CAN'T RELAX.I LOVE HIM, I FEEL LIKE THIS IS THE RIGHT PERSON, AND I HAVE BEEN WANTING THIS FOR SO LONG. I FEEL LIKE HE LOOKS AT ME LIKE A CHILD. GIRLS MUCH YOUNGER THAN ME CAN RELAX & LET IT HAPPEN.Y CAN'T I JUST LET IT HAPPEN IF I REALLY LOVE HIM? THE PAIN! WHAT 2 DO?
Bailey,
You don't mention your age, so this is harder to address.
If you two are having difficulty with intromisison, there's a couple of things to check.
First, are you relaxed?
Second, are you aroused and lubricated? (This can be treated easily with some commercial lube.)
Third, have you been examined by a doctor?
Some women have abnormally tough or blocking hymen that require a small surgical snip to help break.
Without this, insertion or intercourse can be almost impossible. It is nothing to be ashamed of, but something some women need a doctor's help to over come.
I would ask to make an appointment with your doctor or GYN so that they can help you. Be frank with them and tell your doctor exactly what you've done, or attempted, and ask for their assistance. They can advise you after an examination.
Waiting just a few more days may make all the difference in the world.
Call for an appointment or speak to the nurses now.
Good luck.
You don't mention your age, so this is harder to address.
If you two are having difficulty with intromisison, there's a couple of things to check.
First, are you relaxed?
Second, are you aroused and lubricated? (This can be treated easily with some commercial lube.)
Third, have you been examined by a doctor?
Some women have abnormally tough or blocking hymen that require a small surgical snip to help break.
Without this, insertion or intercourse can be almost impossible. It is nothing to be ashamed of, but something some women need a doctor's help to over come.
I would ask to make an appointment with your doctor or GYN so that they can help you. Be frank with them and tell your doctor exactly what you've done, or attempted, and ask for their assistance. They can advise you after an examination.
Waiting just a few more days may make all the difference in the world.
Call for an appointment or speak to the nurses now.
Good luck.