I know my cherry has already been popped from the previous times I've been fingered. I recently was going to have sex with a boyfriend (not boyfriend anymore) his penis went in but nothing happened. It didn't go up and down. But it did go in. Does that mean I've lost my virginity because it went in or does my cherry have to be popped to be classed as a non virgin ?
What defines a loss of virginity can be hazy under the best of circumstances.
Did he penetrate you fully? Did he make ANY kind of motion, other than pulling out after going in?
I guess the most important thing to consider is how YOU feel about it. Do YOU feel like you're not a virgin anymore? Because, if I'm honest, I really don't think this one counts.