Please somebody help. I just got married to a virgin who is 37. I am 47. We tried having sex but with some difficulties. We made several attempts, but i could not penetrate or get through. In the process, frustrations set in. We had doses of romances and foreplay which we enjoyed though but that is not the real thing. I used my fingers ( one, then two) but she always cried in pain. We had used some jelly too. I get an erection during foreplay but as soon as i attempt a penetatration, i cannot as my penis always slips and my erection goes down. We need counsel to enjoy our sex without frustrations. Please help. I wrote this with the consent of my wife. I have read about thick hymen and vaginismus on the website. It got me more confused. Thank you!
Probably have to go to the Dr. My girlfriend was so tight we couldnt have sex. They can help open her hymen up. nothing to be ashamed of some girls are just born that way
Thanks, all advises point to the same seeing a Dr. or sex therapist. I wish there is alternative way out
do you masturbate a lot .may be your penis is not hard enough because you over masturbated before your marriage. you need to quit masturbating if you do masturbate. try to get healthy like go jogging and play sports and eat multivitamins because you are 47 and that is when the men body slows down in terms of sperm production and erection and multivitamins help. ask you doctor to prescribe you some