Okay i have a question and im only 16 and im a female now im alittle afraid i had sex yesterday and yes he set me up for a one night stand without me knowing it. we had it twice in one day but see this is what happend. we were having intercourse and the condom got stuck in my vagina :$ but i dont know how bad that can be. now the second time i went to put the condom on and well i got it the wrong way :$ and see he flipped it over once it was already on him and well i asked him if that was good to do that he said yes it was okay now. see i was a virgin and well he totaly wasnt.and im not on the pill neither soo i kindaa need help in a urgent way and i dont know im waitin for my period but its not until the 16th of this month or something like that because sometimes im really late so im getting terrified. so i just wanna kno for my own sake if im pregnate cause i dont want to be at this age may i have some help ?? im kinda terrified here pleasee help me !! :-(
Wow, looks like the exact same thing happened to you as it did to me. Probably even the same guy, the bastard.
Anywho.
No, flipping the same condom inside out is NOT okay. If he came in it and flipped it, its just semon on the other side. BUT, to ease at least SOME fears, condoms usually have spermicide on them. So, they have a chemical that kills sperm. which is SLIGHT protection against pregnancy. But still, not completely and not std's.
But, like I said, you did better than me. When my first time came around it happened so fast that I completely forgot about a condom until he was inside. And, of course, a guy like that wasnt going to be quick to remind me. And he was also very experienced.
My advice? To ease your nerves, go to the doctor. It may not be something you want to talk to your parents about, I know. You can try to find a clinic to go to and ask a girlfriend to go with if you're scared. OR, You are getting to that age where you're going to need to go at least annually to a gyno anyway. You can always try to bring that up to mama and see if she takes the bait.
Most importantly, don't freak out about it. Be rational.
Anywho.
No, flipping the same condom inside out is NOT okay. If he came in it and flipped it, its just semon on the other side. BUT, to ease at least SOME fears, condoms usually have spermicide on them. So, they have a chemical that kills sperm. which is SLIGHT protection against pregnancy. But still, not completely and not std's.
But, like I said, you did better than me. When my first time came around it happened so fast that I completely forgot about a condom until he was inside. And, of course, a guy like that wasnt going to be quick to remind me. And he was also very experienced.
My advice? To ease your nerves, go to the doctor. It may not be something you want to talk to your parents about, I know. You can try to find a clinic to go to and ask a girlfriend to go with if you're scared. OR, You are getting to that age where you're going to need to go at least annually to a gyno anyway. You can always try to bring that up to mama and see if she takes the bait.
Most importantly, don't freak out about it. Be rational.