my boyfriend and I have been dating for eleven months and we are ready to have sex..I am almost positive. I do not get aroused very easily, there has actually been only one time where I have enjoyed being fingered...so I think that it is time for the next step. Everytime he tries to go inside me it wont even go inside at all. Is it that I am too nervous? Or is something wrong with me? is there anything we can try that will feel good to me to get me ready before? please help or give own experiences
well the more aroused you are the easier it will be and better it will feel... use lots of lubrication. you can experiment with different types such as warming pleasure... his and hers ext.... just take it slow and spend a lot of time with forplay...... also explore your body and tell him what feels good or what to do different. also always practice safe sex