I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have fooled around a lot but never actually had sex. (He wants too but I don't know yet) anyway, he has fingered me many of times but for the past few months he has started using 3 fingers (sorry for being so detailed) a couple of weeks ago we were both really turned on and he fingered me and it kind of hurt but nothing too unbearable as I enjoyed it. Then when he was done I seen my clothes were very red and I turned the light on to see a mess of blood over his hands and my clothes. We both freaked out and I have been researching about my hymen breaking but on most things they say it shouldn't bleed a lot. There was a lot of blood but it only lasted for about an hour.. Is there any other possibilities it could have been?(other than he could of been a little rough) Or was it my hymen? I'm too scared to do anything with him now incase the same happens again.
He was fingered me, now I don't know did he break my hymen
Kate Smith
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