Well I think I lost my virginty while mastrubating ... And if my husband found out am not a virgin he would probably kill me I will drag shame to my family .... And I want to fake being a virgin but I don't even know how should I act or what should I do I am really lost plz tell me how can I make him think that am a virgin (ps if I don't bleed on the wedding night I will be in big troubles death and shame) this sooo unfair nobody ever touched me I was saving my self not even a kiss but my uncle that jerk he kinda of raped me ... I was 3 he was sleeping next to me then all of a sudden he put his hands in side my pants I was really young I don't know if he took my virginty or not sooo am really scared is there is any hope that am still a virgin ..... I spent my whole life trying to convince myself that didn't happen but somehow it all comes in flashes help!!!!!!!!!!! Tell my what should I do on my wedding night
Hey there I'm so sorry thst that happened to you. Did your uncle just touch you with his fingers or did he stick his own is in you ? In my eyes you are still a virgin. :). As for the bleeding thing. Do you use toons at all or ride bikes or anything? You hymen ( which is what ruptures and bleeds when a virgin first has sex) can rupture in other ways even without sex so the old saying that if a girl doesn't bleed when she has sex then she is not anvirgin is not totally true many girls do not bleed as their hymen has already broke. Have you seen your boyfriends penis is it very large? If not then perhaps you could try that excuse too . But overall I hink you are still a virgin. :)