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Hello, my girl friend and I have been going out for about 8 months now and have recently started getting sexual with our relationship. Now I am not a virgin but she is. We have maid at least 4 attempts. Every time we try to enhance this experience with a-lot of lube and better communication. Every time has been a massive failure. I have gotten 1 of my fingers in there however she did not get any pleasure from it and I had to use a condom on that finger because she said my nail hurt her. When my finger was in there it felt like someone was grabbing my finger and squeezing it as hard as they can, I asked her if she was doing that and she said "no not on purpose" . She felt pain from the finger as anything else I have tried to put in there. She tells me the pain feels like somebody is taking sand paper and rubbing it around in her. I do not know what to do, I don't want to make anymore attempts until I know for sure she will not be in such pain because I honestly cant bare to put her through that anymore. If anyone has any information to help out I would greatly appreciate it.

P.S. She also complained that the lubrication burned her, she also cannot use scented soaps or lotions.
ok i feel very bad for u my man does the samething but his finger is very smooth and i tell him to watch his nail but it shouldn't hurt her after awhile or anything like that we do it all the time and it hurts when he goes farther in then useally but i get used to it after a little while so she should be good
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Yea I just recently lost my virginity like not even 2 days ago and never had ANYTHING inside me. My bf had to start with one finger and when he had tried his second finger I flipped out cause it hurt ALOT. He kept going though and started slowly. The lube is going to burn no matter what I think so at least. I used the KY warming lubrication and it hurt at first but it was worth it. Honestly you got to go really slow my bf was going in like barely a inch every time and he wasn't pumping it he was just pressing in more and more until I would say ow then he would stop and stay there until I was ready. You just have to take your time.My bf had to FORCE me to relax when we started to have sex, he pushed my legs up like onto his shoulder and I couldn't tense up and squeeze his hips with my thighs. Believe me once she gets over that tenseness she'll be veeeery happy. I am glad my bf did it the way he did it and I don't regret it it was a very good experience so as long as you just push in until your fully into her before you pump and pump slowly she won't be in alot of pain. This coming from someone who couldn't relax because I read up on here bout first times and girls kept saying it hurt soooo much and it didn't hurt nearly as bad as they put it out to be.
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Hey, I lost my virginity no long ago. You just need to relax her, make her feel as comfy as you can, then start to massage her and use your tongue if you can! trust me that helps! And it actually do take sometime for her! Just be patient, fauile is normal! I remember when I was ready, my bf still tried like 4,5 hours couldnt put it in!

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Just take your time not every girl is the same
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Have her See a Doctor for her Vagina and I would suggest you go there with her, so you both can explain what is up at the very worst the doctor will be able to use a speculum and dilate her, but it is more to do with weather or not she is relaxed enough for penetration to occur, "doctor I would say the type but am drawing a blank right now", anyway a Lady parts doctor can recommend or prescribe a hypoallergenic Lube, or just go down on her and do Tongue penetration for a while, but loss of virginity is painful for women and not having her relaxed enough to complete penetration the first time probably has made her weary of penetration on the minimum a subconscious level, the doctor can prescribe her something to help her relax also, and after the 1st time it will be lots better for her, but you have to get past that 1st part of the Female Curse as I had my Dad and Grandad call it and that is what the bible calls it also, and if she is of legal age she should be having her period aka the curse, and if not then for shame, tell her to talk with her parents and run your ass and hide since if she was my daughter I would be removing the offend parts of the guy trying to violate my prepubescent Daughter, but my Daughters are both of legal age in some areas my youngest still has till next April then she is of the age of legal consent, surprisingly I have a Canadian friend who informed me in Canada at the age of 16 a girl is of the age of legal consent there, I informed him if my youngest was to make his acquaintance I would remove the possibly offending parts to deter all Canadians from coming to the US on a virgin hunt, and I can see you didn't mention your age or her age, but if of legal age, to the doctor you both must go or have her get a girl friend she trusts who isn't a virgin to join with ya and help explain to her what is happening, or at the worst when her sexually active friend is screwing your brains out because it hurt her, that primal jealous reaction will have her say screw the pain and b***h hes mine, and have you in her in a nano second, be prepared to feel like your screwing an ever tightening vice grip, and once in don't pull it out till she is done because you wont be getting back in there anytime soon, and I have never been with a woman who admitted to being a virgin, but I have my suspicions since the 2 swore it had been nearly 10 years since they had any penetration, and one was a mother of a 11 year old boy, born by C section, and she divorced the kids dad 6 weeks after becoming pregnant because he tried beating the child out of her, abortion by him beating the Hell out of her bad enough her 49 year old mom at the time pulled a gun on him when he came by to see her, and from what I was told she grazed his groin with the 1 shot fired, and informed him she didn't miss but he wouldn't have a problem impregnating another woman ever if he didn't leave that moment, the next one was going to blow off what ever manhood his needing to be killed for hitting a woman period, but If I was allowed to determine the punishment for that piece of sh*t, it wouldn't have been a bullet more like the south American fish that will swim up a pee hole, breed 100,000 of them and size them from smallest to largest, and if he wouldn't drink enough to have to piss while in the piss seeking fish tank, put enough IV's in him to insure once he began to piss he wouldn't be able to stop for an hour and let at least 30 to 50 of the smallest of those fish swim up him then to the next larger size him still pissing some blood in his piss now, anyway after he had at the least 3 of each of the differing size of the piss seeking pee hole camping fish, give him Viagra enough to force an erection and his choice of 3 things to f**k 1 sheep 1 goat 1 corpse, and his momma to witness her creation at work her in there with it, {also have each of the things it can sex up fitted with Vietnam War era razor blade inserts an uncle and Vietnam vet told me of something that got 3 guys in his platoon fell victim to the Vietnamese whores would insert prior to sex with an American that split their penis into 4 vertical danglers on penetration}, for bringing that t**d into existence, and also give him what looks like an anvil and Hammer, being an aerogel anvil with a foil coating and the same with the hammer, Hide a dull knife around 1/2 inch ling buried deep in the aerogel anvil, so if it seriously wants the pain to stop it will keep trying the hammer and anvil till it finds it and then go to cutting it off with something duller than a green stick, lol, if his momma loved him she would just bite it off, but she has been fitted with the razor inserts in her Vagina and anus, and also got a TASER implant so if she tried helping it, it gets to watch her twitch form shocks it induced, this whole time speaker implants only he got so only he hears are saying to it f**k something it will feel better, but its cuffed to the point it cant just jack off, that is just day 1 of the eternal punishment, each day I will find whole new depths of depravity to teach any minute bit of a soul that giant t**d has because if reincarnation happens it should be living in fear of intercourse in its next life, yes I will send my self to hell for judging this thing, but if my daughter it would be a tiny price to pay, and the piece of sh*t I am speaking of got his son to live with it at 14 and turned a junior Olympian into a fixture in the revolving door policy of the state and federal pen, it turned what was a great athlete kid into its identical twin of spirit, and his mom wont allow anyone to tell him how his sperm downer reacted to her pregnancy

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