Simply apply raw, again, raw honey to the area and go about your day. The pollen in the honey will draw the sting out and shrink the problem back into place. Trust me.
Hey man, I've never heard of such kind of hemorrhoid remedies. Can you tell me more? This problem has been bothering me for couple of years now, and I only know one trick. That is oil. After every shower I applied oil to it. There is no logical explanation but what I think is that oil softens it and then the hemorrhoid shrinks on it's own, thus drawing back into it's place. I don't know any other method for removing them, but in my opinion, surgery is the last option I would ever consider, because it's recurrent and might solve nothing.
There are various home treatment for your condition. You can try taking herbs to reduce the swelling. You should add more fiber-rich food to your diet to make waste removal less painful.