can someone please help me? Some may not believe but, whatever. I have not cheated on my girl of 7 months and i know for a fact she has not either. About 3 months ago i was told by the docter at the white cross, that i had herpes!! but i did not get them on my genitals, they were on the inner thigh and around the V and also around the anus. because they wernt on my genitals i thought he may have been wrong. I still have red marks around my thighs and the occasional annoying itch, but most of my grief is aroun the back (+) I got told by unrieliable sources that they only hang around for around 2 months..... and there still here!! 2 things. Have i got them, and if so do they stop itchin? P.S. yes my partner knows about them and is fine, which is a bloody miricale.. please somone help me clear my head and answer some of my questions.. Thank you..