I have a girlfriend, who is much older then I am. She is 20 and I am only 16 years old. However, we started to have sex few days ago and she told me something strange. She said there was some precum when we had sex, which drives me crazy. I am sure I did not have ejaculation, and I think she fools around with me. Can you tell me how can I precum and I did not know, is that possible?
I can see you cannot clearly realize what does word precum means. This is not what you think, nothing close to premature ejaculation. If she said there was precum, it does not mean you ejaculated too early. Precum means pre-ejaculation fluid that comes out of penis while man is sexually excited. Excessive oxytocin, epinephrine or androgen hormones promote the production of precum. In other hand, excessive epinephrine and a lack of the serotonin and GABA nervous modulation on the dopamine and sympathetic nervous function trigger a flooding of precum for premature ejaculation. Over-masturbation generally burns out the serotonin and GABA nervous modulation on the dopamine and sympathetic nervous function. It leads to disabling erectile function with excessive prolactin and epinephrine in the bloodstream. A weak serotonin and GABA nervous function will also result in excessive oxytocin and precum release. PC exercises can stimulate the prostate gland to produce oxytocin to heat up the prostate itself and more precum to go. That is why you should not be angry she said that, it does not mean you ejaculated but you released precum only.