how can i lose my virginity without experincing much pain

just get him to anal u thats a start the finger f**k and progress up to penis anal is less painful for a womn anyway and try show him ur pain and finger his anal

This is a very big problem not being able to have sex especially when u want it. This can lead to u losing your husband to another woman who can satisfy him interms of sex. Try using an opioid drug (analgesics) like diclofenac some hrs b4 sex and if it doesn't work try a hypnotic drug like Bromazepam (lexotan) so u can be dizzy or sleep. When this is done 2 or 3 times, u can now have sex without no drugs and no pains. Goodluck.

The best is girl on top with legs open so no ways to close the legs once the head of the penis is in She should just sit down hard and the man pulls her shoulders and pushes up.  Then just sit still until it is comfortable.  Like taking a plaster off.  Slow = prolong pain and quick = one sharp short bit of discomfort.

You need to learn how to spell before you have sex.

i just wanted to tell u guys .. ia m 20 years old n still virgin .. i hav tried many times wid my bf but we failed every time i decited to do but i affraid of pain .. it really hurts when he tries to pussh his penis ... n i start crying ...

THESE PEOPLE don't lie!! Everyone is different, . I have had girlfriends who stated that when they loss their virginity that it did not hurt. Some of my girlfriends stated that hit hurt like hell.I myself experienced pain when trying to lose my virginity. So, I wouldn't say that their liying, just everyone's tolerance level is different. It also makes a differnce if they have been molested, raped, or a rough childhood. It is most definitely psychological in that case.You are just one of those females who were fortunate not to experience that pain.

I am totally understand how u feel because I have been there. I just got married and we have been trying and trying to do it, but it always hurt. I even cried as well because I can't help the pain. BUT, I finally did it using 3 things: 1. LUVpetal Vibe (8 speeds silicone) - Trinity Vibes. 2. PJUR med - repair glide (water-based personal lubricant) regenerative hyaluronan, nature-based preservation, paraben free. Pure & Natural Made in Germany. The color of the bottle is white and it has a picture of green leafs in the bottom. 3. Condom - Durex extra sensitive First, you need to use the vibe and put it around your vaginal area until you turned on. Think of it as massaging your vagina. Second, you will notice that your vagina become wet, then you can put on the PJUR Med repair glide on the surface of your vagina and you can also put the PJUR Med repair glide around the surface of your partner's condom to make it more smooth. Third, you keep the vibe on and put it around your vagina while your partner is going in. This helps to distract you from the pain and will help you to reduce the pain itself. MAKE SURE that when you use latex condoms, DON'T USE oil things because it will break the condom! Make sure that the oil you are about to use will not tear the condom (you can research it online or ask the seller). this is why it's better to use the water-based. PLUS, the PJUR med Repair glide's function is actually to help you feel better after you lost your virginity. Because when I bought it at the store, the girl who works there told me that the first time you lose your virginity, you will feel soar and etc. This PJUR med Repair glide will help you to feel less soar and etc. Hope it helps..

my gf and I have tried for four years now. She is 21 now and I am 26. i've been with about 13 girls sexually. starting when I was eight. I know how to finger, how to arouse, how to take it slow.

she has(had) never touched herself and thinks thats kinda weird and gross.  (no tampons)

It has taken this long to finally penetrate about an inch inside her with a finger.

she will only let it in for a short while right before she gets off.

she is so 'full' inside no matter what she gets poked by my nail. (not a constant poking but enough it begins to irritate)

i've never experienced such a lush, closed vagina.

I've almost given up the thought of ever having sex with her....but after four years of rubbing on her with my nose and tongue shes finally opening up a little bit. so what I am going to do is get a magic bullet from a porn shop (i had a roommate who used one - she had herpes and i assume the small nature and shape of it related to her problems) (((no i didnt sleep with her lol))) 

not until just recently had she even remotely been comfortable with the idea of using a toy....and she also gets lock jaw just by eating so i've had literally no personal sexual interaction for like five years. its been very frustrating, but its always the girls that get along with me best that have the worst empty feeling vaginas so i refuse to let this girl go, because shes cute, adorable and loving.

its been very difficult to sleep next to this beautiful girl for so many years and not penetrate her, but its finally coming along it seems.  

(anal is not for everyone...she kinda likes her bum to be played with but only for a few seconds, and personally i dont like the idea of my penis to be thought of as a deuce. )

 

she does the leg thing too. when i brought it up with her at first she almost cried, but i just told her its cool we just gotta work on it.  she still does it after four years.. what i will do is rub myself on her a little bit gently, and she thinks i'm going to try going in...so i catch her on it and joke and wiggle her legs around... she giggles cause she knows she needs to relax.

its always felt like i'm with a rape victim and its been depressing at times...but i know, if we can get this over done with gone before shes forty/fifty that we will have an amazing sex life for a long time.

You shouldn't be worried about losing your virginity until you can speak proper English. How are you going to raise a child in this great country, if he or she can't even articulate a f*****g sentence?

I agree! I also find it quite harrowing that this guy has been sexually active since the age of just 8!!!

first let him make u excited by sucking ur boobs and in the excitement u will forget all the pain!!! try it

hey im really very nervous abt loosing virginity....nd its a mental trauma for our relationship....m 23 yrs old ....2morrow im planning to get drunk and loose it once and for all...

i am amaze really to see that many women are having such problem. its already 2 yrs of marriage and am still the same...virign!!
i want to have a baby..can someone help.
i have same problem ...its painful even with finger..plss help me

I know right?? I thought i was the only one..
My boyfriend is super awesome and perfect and am the bad one cause I havent had sex with him yet. He might leave me am guessing

You said you are married for one(1) whole year and you still have difficulties in having sex, please please please see your doctor.