If you personally think that your not ready don't do it. As far as I'm concerned you have questions lifetime to be ready. Try and finger yourself a bit to allow yourself to ease your vagina and make it easier to lose your virginity
I feel xzactly the same way, I have been trying it with my bf and t hurts like hell, it really stressing me out! I wish a could get at lest some pills to easy the pain or even not being conscious when t happens so that a won't feel any pains if u guys figure something out please let me know this us way too much for me and its stressing me out a lot plus I feel miserable
hieeee.......i m feeling litl gud by ur ans.......i got married for last 2 months...but i am so much scare the pain of losing Virginty......v still not intimate due to my phobia,,,,,,,i also think lots of pain,,,,nd for this mind set up i cant allow my hubby to enter it inside.......so really there is less pain....like other said lots of pain,,,,
but some people say it don't hurt so how can yhu do it without pain
am 24 years old and still a virgin....................plis help me how i can break virginity without pain
Ugh pain pills lube fingering and I'm assuming you're not very active try doing expensive stretching and exercise maybe even some yoga probably a week or a month in advance and really commit to it they will help you be more relaxed
ABSOLUTELY LAST RESORT: consensual nonconsent which means you give him permission to get it over with no matter what.
the short version of this you give him consent to rape you without him getting jail time yes this is a thing but like I said I would strongly advise this as a absolute impossible last resort
Sidenote: yall woman need to stop with the man hate
Listen if your boyfriend loves you he'll be patient with youbut if you love your boyfriend don't get it over with
same problem here
Ok I'm 16 and I am wondering when I'll loose my Virginity I'm scared it hurts when I go to the bathroom am I loosening it????
I'm ready to lose my virginity honestly and it's mostly the pain that is stopping me. I can see the frustration in my boyfriend face when we get started and I tell him to stop because of the pain. Everyone is saying fingering helps and lube but I don't have lube and fingering still kind of hurts. I'm just frustrated and I really do want to do it because I love him with all of my heart. He's a virgin to so he so scared of hurting me! I guess I should say WE don't know what to do.
Hi... I read your story. So how's your condition now? It happens to me now when my marriage is like 3 months.
How are you? Have you been well with your boy friend. I have the same problem with you and I don't know what to do. Even my husband hates me, giving up his school and everything. My insurance started in November, but he said that he couldn't wait any longer. Since it's already almost 3 months of marriage. Am I failed as a wife. I am really afraid. Please advice.
I am actually having the same problem I already tried to lose my virginity several but to me its very painful and I'm tired of it my partner and I fingle each other but it still hurts and I don't know what else I should do
Did it hurt when you are trying to break your hymen or even when he is inserting into your vagina?
Breaking your hymen will probably just be painful and after continuing with sex the pain should become less and less. Maybe your partner should just push in and break your hymen fast to get it done quickly.
Breaking your hymen will probably just be painful and after continuing with sex the pain should become less and less. Maybe your partner should just push in and break your hymen fast to get it done quickly.
TRY ROPHYNOL....THAT WILL MAKE U FAINT....
Hi im married for 3 months and i feel u. The exact fear. At first i thought it was vaginismus..(u can google what it means) but when i saw the gynae she said its all up in the head. . Sighss.