I'm going through the same exact thing with my boyfriend. It's honestly the most frustrating thing to see how stressed out he gets whenever I'm in the verge of tears because of the pain. I'm so determined to lose my virginity to him but I honestly can't handle the pain. Fingering hurts way too bad. I honestly don't know what to do. I'm afraid he'll leave me for it or go satisfy his needs someplace else. I need advice. Anyone?
I have the same problem...I usaully get all nervous when i feel him trying to press it in and it actually hurt then i normally close my legs and i have this bad shaking problem which causes me to loss energy to keep on try.....i feel so useless...which there was medication to ease the pain
Uuumh that's very sad hey keep on trying
My bf doesn't want to use lubricants, will it hurt if we don't use it?
Ive been with my boyfriend for a couple weeks now. When i tried to loose my virginity i couldnt i mean his thing was in me but i couldnt do it. I dont know if i was ready the first time. I wanna try it the second time but its gonna hurt and i cant stand the pain. But i really feel like i want to now
Well It's Rather So Unfortunate Cos Somehow The Pain Is Inevitable But On The Other Side You Can Reduce It, Just Endeavor To Have An Extreme Romance Then She'll Get Wet And When She's Wet She'll Be A Lil Bid Lose, Try Penetrating Gently I'd Also Advise You Use Condoms To Enhance Lubrication And Then Ensure You Never Stop Rubbing All Of Her
What can make it hurt less
My mom told me using a condom is kinda like eating a cheeseburger with paper on your tongue so without a condom feels better but I suggest you both get tested first
U can also have him eat u out then finger u with several fingers and lastly put in his penis
Hello , me and my husband are married for 11months and no sex . i'm so scared losing my virginity because they said it really painful at the first but I want to get rid of these problem , my husband want a baby so much but I can't give it . I'm so stupid and coward .
I have the exact same problem
Ya i know
Pretty much the same situation... close to a year n haven't succeeded
Can I know how did you solve your problem?
I'm in the same situation.. Married for almost 5months... I cried every time my husband tried to insert his penis.. Too painful for me.. Lubricant? Yes we already tried..but still painful for me... I don't know what to do!!!