Okay so I started trying to masturbate a few days ago after a sex ed lesson, I have been looking at diagrams and looking for some ways to get the best out of masturbation, I am 13 and think I should know these things now, but I have a few questions 1. Okay where the @&£* is the clit? So confused, mind I don't know the names of any other bits round down there so please don't spout loads of confusing stuff! X 2. How do I get the best out of a masturbation? I don't get it! X 3. Also what am I supposed to use? I don't want to stick anything down under and I don't have an electric toothbrush, no condoms or nothing so... Dunno! Please please help! Xx
Couldn't have been much of a sex ed class if you didn't even learn what and where your different parts are. Who sponsored that? How did you manage to find this site if you don't know how to use Google?
If you type vulva into Google and select images you will get all the information you need about your parts.
Now that you have found your clit all you need is your fingers to play with it. You get the best out of masturbation by practicing with your fingers until you find what works best for YOU. You don't need to stick anything in anywhere and you don't need any mechanical devices. People have been masturbating for thousands of years using just fingers and hands.
Your clit also has "roots" that extend down the sides of your vulva under your inner lips. If you use two fingers in a split finger motion and slowly rub down and up you will find some nice sensations along with rubbing your clit. That's why the song says you want a man with a slow hand.
njoynlife if right on the money. If you put your hand on your belly button with your fingers pointing down and slide your hand down the clit is the first part of your p***y you will touch. it is a small nub that is found where the lips meet. Get a good diagram from a reliable website and learn your body parts. Although why you didn't get that in sex ed is beyond me. What on earth did they teach you? My kids learned that in grade 4. anyway, explore with your hands, find out what turns you on and what type of touch you enjoy. Try touching different parts in different ways, gently rubbing, stroking, tugging, tickling etc to find out what you like. Use your fingers or your whole hand. With panties on or off. Some women like it slow and gentle, others prefer faster and stronger touch. Some women like to insert a finger or two in their vagina, others don't. Almost everyone will find playing with their clitoris extremely pleasurable and will have an orgasm that way. It takes time to find out what you like. And there is no right or wrong way. Just whatever feels right for you. You do not need any objects, your hand are more than enough. And women usually don't ejaculate (some do 'squirt but it is rare) like men do so don't worry about that, no matter what you read. And remember, for girls sexual pleasure is something that develops as you get older. You may not 'get it' straight away. explore your body and enjoy and don't stress too much. It is supposed to be fun.