hi there...
well im 18 yrs n i got a bf n its goin to b 2 yrs sicne we've been 2gether..i love him very much...this summer last semaster i saw this guy we looks like my bf n i got to noe him n he is so much like my bf everything is the same wid them excet for reglion..my bf i here wid me in canada he's bak home in guyana...n this guy who im frnds wid well he's my best frnd now n we meet up n so on but my bf doesnt noe i keep lyin to him n i cant take it but i tired tellin him de truth as a joke once n it wasnt gud...uc me nmy best frnd we meet up in this valley nt far from where we live..its nice n peaceful there so we go there 2 relax but then things happen between us...he touched my breast n he even saww them n sucked on dem....then it just gets worst...he finger me there...we tired not meetin again there but i doesnt work...he told m wen he does those things he's not in his senses...he noes i got a bf...i dont kno if hehas feelings 4 me n isnt tllin me...i didnt stop him cause i didnt want him 2 feel bad...i noe certain things we have to try to avoid but we cant because its like it wa written dwn in ur life to happen..so i dont knoe if wat is happen between me n my best frnd is suppose to happen cause God wrote my life like dat...?????i dont consider dat cheatin on my bf....i consider it sumthing dat was made to happen...
plz help me wat do i do...i dont hate my best frnd n i never well...but how do we stop thses things from happenin.... :$ :'( >:( :-( ?
well im 18 yrs n i got a bf n its goin to b 2 yrs sicne we've been 2gether..i love him very much...this summer last semaster i saw this guy we looks like my bf n i got to noe him n he is so much like my bf everything is the same wid them excet for reglion..my bf i here wid me in canada he's bak home in guyana...n this guy who im frnds wid well he's my best frnd now n we meet up n so on but my bf doesnt noe i keep lyin to him n i cant take it but i tired tellin him de truth as a joke once n it wasnt gud...uc me nmy best frnd we meet up in this valley nt far from where we live..its nice n peaceful there so we go there 2 relax but then things happen between us...he touched my breast n he even saww them n sucked on dem....then it just gets worst...he finger me there...we tired not meetin again there but i doesnt work...he told m wen he does those things he's not in his senses...he noes i got a bf...i dont kno if hehas feelings 4 me n isnt tllin me...i didnt stop him cause i didnt want him 2 feel bad...i noe certain things we have to try to avoid but we cant because its like it wa written dwn in ur life to happen..so i dont knoe if wat is happen between me n my best frnd is suppose to happen cause God wrote my life like dat...?????i dont consider dat cheatin on my bf....i consider it sumthing dat was made to happen...
plz help me wat do i do...i dont hate my best frnd n i never well...but how do we stop thses things from happenin.... :$ :'( >:( :-( ?
Well, these things are common for 18 year olds. However, put yourself in your boyfriend position and think if you wished you were in his place.
If things were to happen with this other guy, you should certainly break up with your boyfriend. This is what maturity is all about like making right decisions and being responsible for your moves.
If things were to happen with this other guy, you should certainly break up with your boyfriend. This is what maturity is all about like making right decisions and being responsible for your moves.
Uh, no matter what you want to call it, IT IS cheating. Wouldn't you think the same way if your bf was doing that with his best friend? You obviously are in a tough predicament and have feelings for your bf and have sexual feelings for your best friend. You should decide who is best for you. Don't play with your bf. Be honest and truthful. If you feel that strongly about your best friend that you think that you and him were meant to be or that it's in your destiny maybe he is the one for you, don't you think?
Anyway, it's your decision, but don't cheat.
Anyway, it's your decision, but don't cheat.