I know this is off the topic of health but I need advice and don't know were to go and get it. I have this guy friend I like him and he likes me, but a few days a go he asked me if I had a boyfriend and since I don't I said no and thought he was going to ask me out. So after he asked me if I had a partner, I asked him the same question, he said yes,then I left. Yesterday I found out that I am friends with his girlfriend He lives in my neighborhood but we never talked until recent. We had been talking for a bout 2 or 3 weeks and he is flirting with me saying things like "I'm thinking about you" and "I really miss you, come cuddle with me" and of course I was flirting back. Now I just feel pressured into flirting back with him, it is kind of starting to make me uncomfortable and I don't want to tell him to get lost but I would like him to stop flirting with me. How do I tell him that with out being rude?
Just tell him that you didn't realise he was in a relationship, and that you don't want to behave in a way that would upset his girl. You could also suggest he thinks about her feelings if he loves her. You don't need to be rude.