Hey i am 17 years old girl.... I want to know that how do we recognize the lost of virginity .. My boyfriend and i dint have sex as such but we tried to insert his pennis... i felt very slight pan and no bleeding nothing..! After he came, we immidiatly stopped it... And now i just want to know that how do i test myself that i am virgin or not ?.. I can insert my one finger barely into my vagina..! Does that mean m not a virgin ?? Please help! Thanks!
@monishka,as far as the anatomy of the hymen is concerned,there are various types,its not necessary to bleed once penis is penetrated for the first time,there are very laxed,stretchable type of hymen,and some girls might not have a hymen from birth,or this might have dissappeard,if ur an athlete,cyclist,etc,
for ur further information,during sex,and while the foreplay u will discharge more and more sticky fluid which will make ur intercourse painless,and naturally, if u have stretchable type of hymen then u will not see bleeding,but once after sex if u try with ur finger,this will limit to one finger,this is normal,,reply
yes, i was a cyclist ...
After insertion of pennis i dont feel like we're havin sex,because pennis dont completely go inside.. i dont feel like its an intercourse!..when we try to insert futher slight pain starts! ...
after the secreation of fluid i inserted my finger in and it passed easily but the space is sufficient for only one finger..! does that mean i aint a virgin now ?
I think once it's in you're virginity is gone. Doesn't matter if it was .5 of a centimetre.