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I HAD A ABORTION WEDNESDAY AND IM DEEPLY REGRETING IT... HONESTLY IVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT FOR YEARS NOW AND IT NEVER HAPPENED SO ME THINKING SOMETHING WAS WRONG WITH ME CONTINUED HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX GOT PREGNANT... I WANTED TO KEEP MY CHILD BUT I HAD SEX WITH 3 DIFFERENT MEN AROUND THE TIME OF CONCEPTION WASNT SURE WHO THE FATHER WAS THAT WAS ONLY REASON I HAD A ABORTION NOW IM SO HURT.... WORST FEELING IN THE WORLD I WANTED TO GET UP AND RUN OUT OF THAT CLINIC AND CRIED AFTER THE PROCEDURE...  I HOPE GOD FORGIVES ME FOR MY SINS...
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Here is my story I would like to share and hopefully it can help someone in the future. I become pregnant, but I had been with two different men at the time of conception, so I didn't know who the father was. I scheduled a medical abortion when I was 6 week pregnant, but I cancelled it because I didn't think I could live the rest of my life wondering whose baby I was carrying. I would have loved to have a child with one of the man, we had even talking about having a baby and we never used a condom. But there was no way I wanted to have a child with the other man and he always used a condom. I did some research online and found out that it is possible to have a prenatal paternity DNA test. I found two companies, one company performs the test starting at 9 weeks of pregnancy and the other at 14 weeks of pregnancy. I chose the one at 9 weeks, even though it was more expensive, but I wanted to have an option for an abortion if I needed to. The state I live in only performs abortions up to 14 weeks. I received the results about 8 days later and unfortunately I was pregnant by the man I didn't want to have a child with. I thought long and hard, but I decided to have a surgical abortion, and I was very close to 14 weeks. Now it has been a week. There are times I regret my decision, and I am also worried if I could get pregnant in the future, but for the most part I feel I made the right decision. I also feel I have been given a second chance in life and I am going to use this as a learning experience and not make the same mistake in the future.
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i totally agree wit yu, i couldnt have kids for 12yrs i wasnt trying either but 1 day i found out i was pregnent i honenstly wasnt happy it wasnt something that i planned ,end up havin an abortion cause my b.f was cheatin on me,im still in skool i bearly support myself and he never ever supported me or bought me a thing.. WOMANS R NOTHING BUT AN OBJECT TO HIM..IMAGIN MY BABY WOULD SUFFER IF I KEPTEM...long story short i made the decision to abort the baby cause he wont support me and i cant keep it...
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HI....thanks for your above suggestions. even i had 2 abortions in last two years. reason for the last abortion was the weak fetus (with no heart beat)..so as per the doctor recommendation i had to go for the D&C (i.e abortion), which i had last September only. NOW I AM PLANNING FOR NEXT PREGNANCY. my doctor has said to wait for atleast for 3 months...can u please suggest me is that ok or any precautionary measure taken into concern along with that.

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No. Her pregnancy hormones will still be positive for about 4 - 6 weeks after an abortion but you should still use protection.
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You ovulat starting the day your period starts and lasts for up to two weeks. So try then!!
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Hi i am in the same situation & i am six weeks along now. I have an appt for a medical abortion this week but I just dont know If i can do it, I am not against abortion but I just have an overwhelming feeling it is not for me... Not knowing whos it is out of the two men I was with has been literally driving me sick, no sleep& anxiety that feels as if i cannot breath. Please if you have any information regarding the prenatal paternity test please answer back. Thank you hope you see this soon !
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Hey i waz reading your post. I had the exact same problem. CHINESE HERBS MACA ROOT, DONG QUI, EVENING PROMISE OIL. and many more. Google it find one or two thats affordable and take it. Safe and effective. Gave me a lil girl.

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Ok, so many women have some real reasons to get an abortion, in my particular case, i found out i am pregnant at the same time i have the chickenpox, i have been trying to conceive for over a year and this happens now, my husband and i really want to have a baby but we dont want to bring a sick child to this world, trust me i am devastated, and that is the reason i want to get pregnant as soon as i have the abortion...
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i did an abortion 2yrs ago and been trying to get pregnant but nothing happen i am wondering if i can have any children worrying much....

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chances for getting pregnant immediately after abortion is really high. just keep taking medicines regularly...because abortion leads to high weakness...should be in touch with your doctor...she ll rescribe you the best time to plan for next...cheers and all the best:)  

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hi i had abotion and after two weeks i had unprotected sex. i took postinor 2 an hour after the sex. i began experiencing crampy tommy aches, darriah. my question is can i get pregnant. need advice soon.

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I had an abortion last week and I had sex the other day without condom am I ok??

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Hi, I had an abortion 5 days ago in what I thought was the right decision to save my marriage. My husband and I have been together for about 12 years and stopped using condoms last July. He wasn't really ready to have a baby but said he would be ok with it when it happened. So May 24th I was so sick all day and took a test that night which was positive. My husband was at work and all I could do was cry I was terrified and happy at the same time. I've wanted a baby for years and it was finally happening. The next day I told my husband and I couldn't stop crying he said it would all be ok and that he was happy about it. We took another test together that night he was so excited to get one of the digital readout test and he even wanted to hold it in the container I went in to see the results. About 45 seconds later it appeared and said pregnant and he was smiling from ear to ear. We were ok for about a week and then his whole attitude changed he wasn't talking to me and felt very distant. He said it wasn't the right time we couldn't afford it. We have too much debt and so on. He basically gave me an ultimatum either the baby or him. I didn't know what to do all I knew is how much I love him and kept thinking he's right we aren't going to be able to provide like we would want too so the baby would have the best life possible. So I decided to have the abortion thinking we would be ok and be able to try again later. So I went for the abortion this past Tuesday and things between us have just gotten worse. He's still not talking to me and I hate myself for killing my baby at 7 weeks. I have no support from him as he didn't even ask me the day I had the procedure if I was ok or how I felt, nothing. I really regret doing it and I don't know how to get past it Or if I ever will. Everywhere I look its baby this and baby that, everyone I know is just finding out they are pregnant or have just had a baby. I REALLY want a baby I just wish I hadn't done what I did. I keep hoping that maybe the abortion didn't work but I know that's very unlikely. I know it may not be the right thing but I'm going to try and get pregnant as soon as possible if I can get my husband to talk to me or touch me in the next few weeks were its easy to become pregnant and if it happens and he leaves I know I'll have that babies unconditional love forever and this time around my family's support. Nobody knows wheat I've done because the original plan was to wait till my first doctor appt and make sure everything is ok before telling our parents and family. I want to tell my mom so bad but I don't want her to know what I've done. Any thoughts or help to just make me not hate my life and self for the biggest mistake I've made would be nice, but please don't judge me I'm already doing that enough myself.

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