I'm so sorry for what you have endured. Also, if your regret is really severe and you need help feeling comfortable again. Look up Rachel's Vinyard. They are a group that helps women deal with post abortion regret.
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Did you end up having another baby after your abortion? I'm kind of in the same boat.
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Love, if you are still pregnant, don't abort as many women have come to regret it. Instead, go see your local crisis pregnancy center for advice on what to do with the child. Also, they provide free rescources like diapers and bibs. They are pretty welcoming. Also, adoption isn't too bad of an idea because then your child will be cared for by a loving family (Trust me, I know two girls who were adopted and they turned out just fine.) I hope this brings you relief and makes things better. I'm not trying to judge you, I'm just being honest and trying to prevent you from doing something you may regret.
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Thank you for your kind words, unfortunately I had my abortion about 3 months ago & am absolutely one of the ones who regrets it horribly. I am completely against abortions now. Had anyone in the clinic asked if that was what I wanted I would have said no. No one counseled me what so ever (not blaming them, it was my choice but my child could have been saved by one little question or a simple no (or anything) from the father). I went through with it on auto-pilot. I'd love to have another baby I'm just too scared of the feelings that might arise from a new pregnancy. I know I will ALWAYS have feelings of regret & that the baby can never be replaced, nor will the hole in my heart ever be completely healed. But like I said I do want another child I'm just so worried about the repercussions of what might come of that.
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I'm real sorry for the regret you feel. Here's a number for a post abortive healing hotline if you need it 1-800-784-2344
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I was on the shot and did not use any form of b.c . I got pregnant right after my first period came. So if you haven't had your first real period after you are off of your b.c then you still can have a chance. It took like three months after I was off my b.c to get my first period..
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Honey, I know you are dead terrified, but please don't have this abortion! Sometimes, after an abortion, a woman will regret it and I don't want that happening to you. Please, go see your local crisis pregnancy center for advice and what to do with the child before you do something risky. Also, don't be afraid to tell your parents. They need to know about this and they can help you with what you need.
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I got pregnant last year. I had an abortion at almost 15 weeks. I was in a abusive relationship and my boyfriend at the time was very possessive. I wanted to Hage the baby but I couldn't find my self going through with it with him. Very selfish I know. I went through the abortion and felt very guilty. I found myself again pregnant 3 months later. Please think thru on you decisions. But don't try and get pregnant directly after. Your body needs to geal, and your emotions probably have a lot to do with wanting to conceive again. Good luck.
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I know. It's been almost 5 months since I had mine. I was abstinent the first cycle, got on bc pills the next two cycles, used condoms the 4th cycle & just now feel like my body would be okay. Mentally/emotionally I'm not exactly sure. It's hard to forgive myself. Looks like I just answered my own questions. I still need time to process this mentally. Did you keep your 2nd?
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If you are feeling any kind of guilt, please call this number for a post abortion healing hotline 888-456-4673
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If you are feeling any kind of guilt, please call this number for a post abortion healing hotline 888-456-4673 (Also, if you are still with that man, don't be afraid to leave him and definetly get authorities to help you if you need it.
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I'm sorry for all that you are feeling. If you are feeling any kind of guilt, please call this number for a post abortion healing hotline 888-456-4673
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I know this is over a year ago! But try drinking strong lemon water in the morning and night you should get pregnant in no time! 5 years trying and after a few days drinking lemon I'm 5 weeks pregnant
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I had an abortion before 9 days & on 9th day we did the sexual intercourse. So is there any chances of getting pregnant if we will do it 2-3 times within 2nd week. I had an abortion of 8 weeks pregnancy.
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