Am 27 years old and i have a son of eight years old.
I starred touching myself since 2014 until now am still doing it and am worried about my son what if he finds me marsterbeting myself what will i tel him. Please help me to stop i really need your advice please.
Hey there if you son catches you you can explain to him that it is a normal process when people get older..... Or try doing it in a private place where he won't catch you. How often do you masturbate and do you watch porn at all ?
If you are 27 and started masturbating in 2014 that means you did not start until you were 24 !!!! which seems rather late. Are you a single parent ?. I would not worry to much as the other reply says keep you door shut and the bed sheet up. Do it in the bathroom with running water making a noise or just when your son s at school. He's 8 so in four years he will start masturbating himself and you will have to re assure him that its perfectly normal. Worse case he catches you in the middle of an orgasm (which is highly unlikely) you say its just the way adults relieve stress and nothing for him to worry about.
Its not realistic to think you can stop as you have needs which need to be satisfied.
Good luck and let us know how you get on.
Yes i do watch porn on my net.
Nothing wrong with watching porn I think you are worrying to much. Just enjoy yourself .Is there a man in your life ? who you can share your fears with.
Make sure your son does not access your laptop with porn sites . Best to delete search history. How often do you masturbate ? at your age I suspect it is quite often once a day ? seriously that's not a problem most people do.
Hope this helps
No one in my life as for now, do u think if i stop watching this would stop.
No if you stop watching you will still feel frustrated and still masturbate but it will not be as much fun as when you watch porn.
You just need to be careful and not let him have access to your web sites. Lets be honest how likely is he to catch you masturbating ? Does he have his own room ? and you would hear him coming into yours. When he's out you have the opportunity to have a good porn watching session and hopefully some really good orgasms this will make you nice and relaxed for when your son comes home. If you try and stop it will just make you anxious and depressed and who will then suffer your son. So I do not think you should stop.
Happy to help
Thank you so mach for everything, and am really glad that i tolk to someone about my problem and the truth is am feeling better now think a lot.
Not a problem glad I could help only a pity we can only communicate through SteadyHealth .
What ever you do don't feel guilty about masturbating
Good luck
Once a week I randomly ejaculate without masturbating, by just being hard. Is this a problem? But I orgasm with no effort, which is nice.