Okay so I'm 14 years old and I've been masturbating for quite some time now. And the problem is that when I masturbate I always avoid touch my clitoris in any way, like I simulate or touch under it, just rub cause I don't like fingering or the feel of it. But when I try to "get off" by rubbing my clit, it kinda hurts. And I just don't touch it cause of the uncomfortable sensation it shoots up my lower area. Can anyone tell me what's wrong? Am I doing it wrong? Or is there just someone messed up with me? Please help. I really don't want to ask my mom or anyone close to that matter.