i am a straight male but i love gay porn.

I'm 14 and absurdly obsessed with gay porn but im straight.
kinda hate my self for that.

i consider myself to be straight, i'm 17 and for many years i've masturbated to gay and shemale porn. i've even fantasised madly about it and on many occasions, used dildos and dildo like objects - which felt really good. i'm attracted to girls, and even had sex with them but the last time i did i had a real problem, i just couldnt come - when i realised this i tried thinking about receiving anal but it just wasnt enough. whenever im turned on, i want to suck and swallow and also receive anal but this urge subsides when im not turned on.
am i bi sexual? or bi curious ? or do i just need to go and try it with a guy ?

Hey guys, 100% female right here.
I think I can help everyone out in explaining what I think may be the reason why you are turned on by guy on guy.
I'm actually turned on by girl on girl porn and I think I know why. Its because you relate more to the people you are watching. I don't mean emotionally. For instance, when a male sees another male receiving extreme pleasure, you want to connect with him, and its easier to do so because you aren't distracted by someone of the other gender. You can focus solely on what's at hand, and I think it is more pleasing for that particular gender because you can just imagine what it could feel like if someone was doing it to you-- and honestly, who knows more about pleasing a male body, a guy or a girl? Of course a guy! They know whats more pleasurable because its like an instinct. Same goes for a girl, females know how to please themselves or other females better than a male would know.

Also, being attracted to this does not determine your sexual identity. All it means is that your sex organs are WORKING properly and that hormones are pulsing through every fiber of your being, which is supposed to happen during adolescence/early adulthood. You are all normal! Don't drive yourselves mad trying to figure out if somethings wrong with you. :-) Seriously, its gonna be okay. And even if you DO turn out to be gay, there is nothing wrong with that. If it makes you happy, then go for it! Don't let it hold you back.

So yeah, that's just my take on the matter, hope it clears up something for any of you. :-)

i once masturbated over gay porn and it made me feel sick after. i am definately attracted to girls but have an obsession with men's abs. i would never want to try and have sex with a guy but i am curious about it. does this make me gay?

I'm 14 and I love gay porn but after I'm done I get embarrassed and sorta ashamed because of it.I lime girls and I imagine myself with some guys. If some guys wanna talk here's my email.

Im glad really glad im not the only one im a hard core christian and i know its a sin to look at any kind of porn but its addicting and im ashamed but im glad im not the only one i was really worried for awhile that gay porn turned me on but so does straiht but whenever im with girls that i like it its a really strong physical and emotional connection and i have never had any feelings for a guy because it seems unnautral and disgusting

I guess im Bi... I think.When im at school I don't think about sex at all unless people are alking about it... But at home I see Boobs , ass, shirtless men, I get turned on I wonder if this is normal? But no matter if it's a man or woman I still feel the need occupy myself with something else like it's bad to like girls or guys. Anyways when im alone in my room I watch lesbian ,straight and gay porn, I usually cum faster with gay porn but it might be because I think it's wrong and the adrenaline makes it so...But if it's two really hot girls I cum fast too maybe Im just picky.But for my final final thoughts i'd like to say maybe we resort to gay porn because straight porn just gets played out you watch it all the time and maybe you just want a change. The first few times I watched I felt disgusted then I watched a few more time like months later I liked it more but I switch from all genres depends what im in the mood for simular to choosing movies.... anyways thats me putting my two cents in on the topic glad to know im not he only on that has this problem too. :-) btw im 14

I sometimes thought of gay sex but it was usually always oral. Then at this party I was at a party and this girl was about to give me head ( I never had a bj before , oh and iam 16 ) but then distraction happens , I dont get head =( bad time. But then Iam talking to this bi guy at the party you know he's cool I dont mind the gays or whatever but then he ends up giving me head and i never enjoyed it , infact I was drunk but I can remember feeling so awkward and just like oh man what's going on I tryed to enjoy it but it never worked. Then because I thought when in rome i gave him head for like 3 seconds then another distraction comes and then I stopped but after it I was so depressed I walked around random streets drunk and sad of what i had done , but yet gay porn still turns me on but when i reach my climax its not the same i feel really bad and annoyed at myself and ... yeah I know iam not gay but its been pestering me for months and I just want some clarification from someone lol.

Hey guys, I'm a 17 year old bi boy, and was actually looking this up for my friend who is like in denial! :D anyway, there is a reason you are going through this at this age, y'all are going through puberty, its natural! I know what y'all are going through, I was on the basketball team and had a girlfriend, and having this secret, that I liked guys' bodies, it was eating me up! I felt horrible!! But then about the years later, about a year ago, I just didn't want to be crazy anymore, I just excepted that I wasn't all the way straight and its like I became a whole.. new.. person!!... I still liked girls but I always wondered how it felt to suck off really straight guys, that's the only thing I like to do but really its a matter of being comfortable with yourself, we are made to have sexual urges, obviously its not crazy for us to think this! We're men! Its in our brains! I say just give it time!! Once you "find yourself" like how every kid magically turns into a young man, it will be natural to you, you will know what you want now, if you have any questions, my email is peace!

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yeah, im 15 and im straight, i was in love with a girl last year. but i find guys physically attractive, the abs, muscular tits, etc. i want to experiment but than i dont. i dont know how i would go on living with that if im married and have kids. i watch gay porn, it just turns me on. but i dont wanna be in that position. it looks weird and painful. i guess when there are just 2 good locking guys doing it, we notice that and get turned on by different times. is it bad to have a homosexual experience ?

I remember these days guys. (HUGS). You all have a bumpy road ahead of you. I am a gay male and these sound very much like me when I was going through puberty. Its not bad at all, embrace your feelings because they are all you ever will have.

this sounds exactly like me. im 21 but ive never had sex with men or women. ive watched both kinds of porn and i can get off to both but i prefer gay porn. ive always known i want a wife and kids and while i can see myself possibly having sex with a man if the opportunity arose i dont think i could ever see myself actually in a loving caring relationship with a man, just for fun. in my opinion, being bi-sexual doesnt mean just sex with both genders, it means you could fall in love with both genders and thats not me. being a virgin i cant really define myself yet but the term Heteroflexible comes to mind: A person who enjoys sex with both male & females but considers themself heterosexual in the sense that they do not relate with the same sex for an emotional relationship like a bi-sexual could. Heteroflexible is a heterosexual person that is beyond the bi-curious stage but would never engage in an emotional relationship with the same sex.

my dad was always at work when i was younger so i was always hanging out with my mom and sister. ive never been into sports at all, probably because of dad not being around they just werent on tv or talked about, which in turn distanced me even further from other boys my age. being so close to my mom, grandma and sister made it easier for me to be friends with girls because i knew more about girls and what they like than boys. I was also always very shy and it wasnt until i was 13 that i started coming out of my shell and making some male friends. And now at 21 i realize those deep emotional same sex fantasies can be fulfilled by having close relationships with these 4 good friends without making it sexual. I also feel that because im so out of shape i tend to like gay porn because i want to be these men, look like them. Im glad i found the post i quoted because it really helped me out.

Hi! I'm 17 and I, too, have the same problem. I've been struggling with this burden since the 4th grade. I lust for men. I get turned on by men. whenever I see straight porn, my eyes are immediately set on the guy. I mean, I just find the male body more interesting. But, the problem is, I don't get any any emotional attraction with men. I really love girls. Like for instance, i have a female friend who I've known for 6 years now, and I think I love her. I see myself settling down with her, and having a family. And yeah, I for one am a Christian, and I really want to get rid of porn and whatever you may call our situation. I'm just really glad that I now know that I am not alone. Thank you guys for sharing your stories, I really have learned a lot. hope we find a solution to our problems. To God be all the glory.

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So I have been reading all these posts & I wish that when I was 12-14 I would have known what I do now so hopefully I can help one of you. I am 24 years old and for years I have had an addiction to gay porn. I convinced myself that I was gay and had multiple gay experiences when I was in high school. Yet I was never able to climax until the last one and then it was just weird. I then thought I was gay but decided not to act on it and date girls to see if that was what I wanted because I have always wanted a wife and kids in the future. And with girls I was getting turned on so I assumed I wasn't gay. I finally came to find a therapist that was able to help me. The reason why I got turned on by other guys is because I had a lack of other male friendships growing up. I thought that hugging other guys and touching other guys in general was "gay" so I would stray away from any interactions with other guys that involved touching. This distanced me from other guys which made men in general foreign to me so I sexualized it and stared to get turned on by it. Pornography is an addiction as bad as drugs and I am still trying to get completely sober from it. However, I realize now that I have deep emotional same sex needs and that by having close relationships with other guys I can fulfill those needs without making it sexual. I also have come to understand that a lot of the reasoning behind my looking at other guys online forever is from wanting so badly to look like those guys with the perfect abs and bodies. I am so much happier now. There is a website called and it has more information about this kind of stuff. Hope this helps someone. -J

this sounds exactly like me. im 21 but ive never had sex with men or women. ive watched both kinds of porn and i can get off to both but i prefer gay porn. ive always known i want a wife and kids and while i can see myself possibly having sex with a man if the opportunity arose i dont think i could ever see myself actually in a loving caring relationship with a man, just for fun. in my opinion, being bi-sexual doesnt mean just sex with both genders, it means you could fall in love with both genders and thats not me. being a virgin i cant really define myself yet but the term Heteroflexible comes to mind: A person who enjoys sex with both male & females but considers themself heterosexual in the sense that they do not relate with the same sex for an emotional relationship like a bi-sexual could. Heteroflexible is a heterosexual person that is beyond the bi-curious stage but would never engage in an emotional relationship with the same sex.
my dad was always at work when i was younger so i was always hanging out with my mom and sister. ive never been into sports at all, probably because of dad not being around they just werent on tv or talked about, which in turn distanced me even further from other boys my age. being so close to my mom, grandma and sister made it easier for me to be friends with girls because i knew more about girls and what they like than boys. I was also always very shy and it wasnt until i was 13 that i started coming out of my shell and making some male friends. And now at 21 i realize those deep emotional same sex fantasies can be fulfilled by having close relationships with these 4 good friends without making it sexual. I also feel that because im so out of shape i tend to like gay porn because i want to be these men, look like them. Im glad i found the post i quoted because it really helped me out.

Oh my! you just said what's on my mind!!

Anyone who says that he is straight but only turned on by gay porn is kidding himself. Be honest with yourselves.

Religious claptrap has a lot to answer for.

Anyone with Christian fundamentalist parents - leave home as soon as you are old enough. They won't understand.